Upon my arrival I was met by a young lady, Miss Cochrane, who was, I
presume, the secretary. She told me that Miss Nightingale had been
interested in my letter and would enjoy seeing me. But she warned me not
to stay long and to leave if my hostess seemed tired. Presently the
nurse called me, and we ascended some flights of stairs till we reached
a large pleasant room where I was ushered into the presence of Florence
Nightingale. She was reclining in bed, propped up by pillows. A soft
woolen shawl was around her shoulders. Her gray hair, still thick and
not so white as that of most persons of her age (eighty-two), was parted
in the middle and brushed smoothly down on each side beneath a plain
cap. Her features were strong, the nose slightly aquiline, the eyes
bright, apparently gray. She reminded me of Ralph Waldo Emerson in a
certain shrewd and kindly look which seemed to betoken a strong sense of
humor. Her complexion was good, her color also, with something of the
English ruddiness. Her voice was strong and full, an unusual thing in a
person of her age. A pad and pencil lay beside her, with which she made
some notes in the course of our talk.
“What a dear old lady!” I said to myself as I looked at her. I had been
warned that I must myself do the greater part of the talking, as it
would not do to fatigue my distinguished hostess. In her _Notes_ _on
Nursing_ she gives these vigorous and sensible hints for just such a
visit as I was making.
Do you who are about the sick or who visit the sick, try and
give them pleasure, remember to tell them what will do so. How
often in such visits _the sick person has to do the whole
conversation_.... A sick person does so enjoy hearing good
news—for instance, of a love and courtship while in progress, to
a good ending.
(How glad I am to think that I had the sense to tell her two of my sons
had taken wives unto themselves. “I am glad they are married,” said the
dear lady.)
A sick person also intensely enjoys hearing of any _material_
good, any positive or practical success of the right. He has so
much of books and fiction, of principles and precepts and
theories; do, instead of advising him with advice he has heard
at least fifty times before, tell him of one benevolent act
which has really succeeded practically—_it is like a day’s
health to him_.
Instead of repining at her enforced inactivity and grieving over her
sufferings, like the usual egotistical invalid, this glorious soul found
its health and strength in hearing of the good works of others! What
wonder that her presence was like a benediction! People said to me
afterward:
“Is she alone in her old age?”
“Whom has she with her?”
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