It was evident that she was shielded and tended with thoughtful care and
kindness. One could not associate the idea of loneliness with her,
although she had survived most of her contemporaries and near relatives.
Perhaps a glorious but invisible company made that quiet room so bright
and cheerful!
It need scarcely be said that I would have much preferred to have her
take the lead in conversation, but, since this could not well be, I
endeavored to tell her things she would like to hear. Miss Nightingale
was up to date and interested in the questions of the day. We talked of
many things and she was a most sympathetic listener. The questions she
asked showed what close attention she paid to the conversation. They
showed also her sound and practical common sense. She had, be it said,
that most important gift, a strong sense of humor. Thus she was
decidedly amused at my quixotic views with regard to the Elgin marbles
in the British Museum. Knowing her interest in Greece (which she visited
in her young days), I ventured to tell her my real thought—namely, that
these ought to be returned to the Acropolis.
“Why do not you suggest this to Parliament?” Miss Nightingale asked.
She wished to know if my husband and I had been long in England, and we
spoke of the various attractions of London.
When I descanted on the horrors of the Tower, with its great display of
weapons for men to kill one another with, she said she, too, thought it
horrible. I expressed the hope that when women had more to say there
would not be so much war. That in my opinion men were afraid to give us
more power, because, although they pretended to think us less clever,
they really thought us more so than themselves and were afraid we would
get the upper hand. Miss Nightingale asked whether I thought the men
considered themselves more clever, and, with a spice of roguishness,
inquired whether I would like to have the upper hand!
She had a way of making a little semi-humorous gesture with her hand,
drawing it back slightly and then bringing it forward again. The fact
that women already had the suffrage in four states of the Union
interested her, and she asked which those were. On hearing that women
voted for President in Colorado, Wyoming, Utah, and Idaho, she asked the
practical question:
“Have _you_ voted for President?”
I was obliged to confess that I had not.
Miss Nightingale said that women in America have more authority than
they do in England.
She was pleased to hear about the _Woman’s Journal_, giving news of
women all over the world. She asked for the address of the paper and
wrote it down on the tablet lying beside her.
It was a pleasure to tell this dear lady of the health and vigor of her
old friend and contemporary, my mother—that Mrs. Howe read Greek every
morning.
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