Who supposes that a child thus ruled by anger, a prey to furious
passions, can ever be happy? He happy? He is a tyrant; that is, the
vilest of slaves, and at the same time the most miserable of beings. I
have seen children thus reared who wanted those about them to push the
house down, to give them the weathercock they saw on a steeple, to stop
the march of a regiment so that they could enjoy the drum-beat a little
longer; and as soon as obedience to these demands was delayed they rent
the air with their screams, and would listen to no one. In vain
everybody tried eagerly to gratify them. The ease with which they
found their wishes obeyed stimulated them to desire more, and to be
stubborn about impossibilities. Everywhere they found only
contradictions, impediments, suffering, and sorrow. Always
complaining, always refractory, always angry, they spent the time in
crying and fretting; were these creatures happy? Authority and
weakness conjoined produce only madness and wretchedness. One of two
spoiled children beats the table, and the other has the sea lashed.[3]
They will have much to beat and to lash before they are satisfied with
life.
If these ideas of authority and of tyranny make them unhappy from their
very childhood, how will it be with them when they are grown, and when
their relations with others begin to be extended and multiplied?
Accustomed to seeing everything give way before them, how surprised
they will be on entering the world to find themselves crushed beneath
the weight of that universe they have expected to move at their own
pleasure! Their insolent airs and childish vanity will only bring upon
them mortification, contempt, and ridicule; they must swallow affront
after affront; cruel trials will teach them that they understand
neither their own position nor their own strength. Unable to do
everything, they will think themselves unable to do anything. So many
unusual obstacles dishearten them, so much contempt degrades them.
They become base, cowardly, cringing, and sink as far below their real
self as they had imagined themselves above it.
Let us return to the original order of things. Nature has made
children to be loved and helped; has she made them to be obeyed and
feared? Has she given them an imposing air, a stern eye, a harsh and
threatening voice, so that they may inspire fear? I can understand why
the roar of a lion fills other creatures with dread, and why they
tremble at sight of his terrible countenance. But if ever there were
an unbecoming, hateful, ridiculous spectacle, it is that of a body of
magistrates in their robes of ceremony, and headed by their chief,
prostrate before an infant in long clothes, who to their pompous
harangue replies only by screams or by childish drivel![4]
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