It follows from this that all the untruths spoken by children are the
fault of those who instruct them; and that endeavoring to teach them
how to be truthful is only teaching them how to tell falsehoods. We
are so eager to regulate, to govern, to instruct them, that we never
find means enough to reach our object. We want to win new victories
over their minds by maxims not based upon fact, by unreasonable
precepts; we would rather they should know their lessons and tell lies
than to remain ignorant and speak the truth.
As for us, who give our pupils none but practical teaching, and would
rather have them good than knowing, we shall not exact the truth from
them at all, lest they disguise it; we will require of them no promises
they may be tempted to break. If in my absence some anonymous mischief
has been done, I will beware of accusing Émile, or of asking "Was it
you?"[8] For what would that be but teaching him to deny it? If his
naturally troublesome disposition obliges me to make some agreement
with him, I will plan so well that any such proposal shall come from
him and never from me. Thus, whenever he is bound by an engagement he
shall have an immediate and tangible interest in fulfilling it. And if
he ever fails in this, the falsehood shall bring upon him evil results
which he sees must arise from the very nature of things, and never from
the vengeance of his tutor. Far from needing recourse to such severe
measures, however, I am almost sure that Émile will be long in learning
what a lie is, and upon finding it out will be greatly amazed, not
understanding what is to be gained by it. It is very plain that the
more I make his welfare independent of either the will or the judgment
of others, the more I uproot within him all interest in telling
falsehoods.
When we are less eager to instruct we are also less eager to exact
requirements from our pupil, and can take time to require only what is
to the purpose. In that case, the child will be developed, just
because he is not spoiled. But when some blockhead teacher, not
understanding what he is about, continually forces the child to promise
things, making no distinctions, allowing no choice, knowing no limit,
the little fellow, worried and weighed down with all these obligations,
neglects them, forgets them, at last despises them; and considering
them mere empty formulas, turns the giving and the breaking of them
into ridicule. If then you want to make him faithful to his word, be
discreet in requiring him to give it.
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