Miller's Mind training for children Book 1 (of 3): A practical training for successful living; Educational games that train the sensesMiller, William Emer
Philosophy
Miller's Mind training for children Book 1 (of 3): A practical training for successful living; Educational games that train the senses
Miller, William Emer
Mnemonics; Senses and sensation
Everything that the child experiences exerts an influence upon his
future. It suggests a tendency to thought or action. Once the thought
or act is indulged in, it has started the formation of habit. One act
will not create a habit, but one act will tend to induce the child to
act again in the same manner rather than go contrary to it or to vary
the method. Repeated action forms a habit, for habit is defined as a
tendency of the mind to do again what it has done before.
Habits, of course, vary in their strength, but you must realize the
importance of the fact that the first repetitions are the important
factors, because they are the habit's beginning. If the child's
tendency is wrong do not delay changing it. Tomorrow may be too late.
There is no certain age at which child training should begin. It is
never too soon. The earlier you begin the easier it will be, and the
more pleasure and satisfaction you will derive from your children.
The story is told of an anxious parent who went with a six-year child
to the Bishop. The mother told at great length of the difficulty she
was having with the child and asked what the proper age was to begin
training him. The Bishop's reply was: "My dear woman, you are six years
late."
Parents who procrastinate or delay correcting wrong tendencies and
instilling right ones because "the child is too young to know better,"
or "it's too soon to train him yet," will awaken to find that they have
formed a wrong habit and that the child will soon be trying to train
and rule them.
There is no method of child training as helpful as that of Suggestion.
Inducing the child by directly spoken words to think and believe that
he is, and that he does, what you wish him to be and to do. This is
known as Direct Suggestion. This is the most difficult form to use, as
it may arouse antagonism, in which case no favorable result will be
secured. It is better to postpone the use of Direct Suggestion until
some time when you can sit down quietly and talk to the child, holding
him in your lap and first preparing his mind by story or quiet talk
of positive and constructive nature. Then make the Direct Suggestion
in a clear, definite statement. Do not stop to argue or to impress
the suggestion by moralizing. Prepare the soil of the child's mind,
plant the seed (the Direct Suggestion), cover it over and leave it to
germinate there. You do this by once clearly stating the ideal and then
passing on to some other talk or story. Do not allow the child to argue
the statement of the Suggestion. This is fatal to its germination.
Have him in a passive mood in which he is listening to all that you
say, and after you have given the Direct Suggestion and planted the
seed, pass on to something else before he starts a train of contrary
thoughts in his mind.
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