Miss America; pen and camera sketches of the American girlBlack, Alexander
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Miss America; pen and camera sketches of the American girl
Black, Alexander
Women -- United States; Women -- United States -- Social conditions
I reminded the Professor of the lady I had heard of, who wanted to
know at the club whether the Parliamentary drill then organizing was
anything like the Delsarte movements, and of the other, who, at her
first meeting, being appointed a teller, wanted to know what she was to
tell. “I trust, Professor, that you will not take from me my simple,
unquestioning faith in the earnestness of these light-seeking ladies.”
“Those instances,” smiled the Professor, “illustrate the first phase.
You must not be misled by them, for they actually are confirmatory.
You may discern in them the attitude of mind favorable to the feminine
way of taking things lightly. A woman who asks why, never gets nervous
prostration. It is when she gets above asking why that you may watch
for shipwreck.”
“Well, Professor, all I can say is that you have left me in a state
of miserable darkness as to women’s clubs. Surely there are vast
misapprehensions somewhere.”
“There surely are,” admitted the Professor.
“But how do you explain them?”
“The women?”
“The clubs.”
“By woman’s revolt against her segregation. Not, in my opinion, that
she is protesting against the gregarious advantages of man, but because
she is beginning to discover that her sisters are worth knowing. She
has begun to be impersonally interested in, as well as interesting to,
the other woman. The woman’s desire is not improvement; it is, whether
she knows it or not, the other woman, precisely as a man’s interest
in his club is the other man. It has been said that a man often goes
to his club to be alone, and that there is this advantage in a club
that is a place, over a club that is a state of mind. But a woman goes
to a club _not_ to be alone. I suppose there are times when it
would do a woman good to get away from her family, not into company,
but into lonesome quiet. Mrs. Moody, who has said so many wise things,
declares in her ‘Unquiet Sex’ that college girls are too little alone
for the health of their nerves. This may be so, yet women’s clubs are
contemporaneous with girls’ colleges. It begins to look as if it was at
college that the American girl learned that it is not good for woman to
be alone--even with her family. At any rate, that independence which
is so characteristic of the American girl, which is, as I have been
informed and believe, somewhat disconcerting to men, is, undoubtedly,
largely the result of the American girl’s improved relations with her
sister women. When she is as successfully gregarious with regard to
women as men are with regard to men, her sex maturity will be complete.
I know that you are wondering what sort of a woman she is going to be
in that matured state. Have no anxiety. She will not be less agreeable,
but more so. She will overdo the clubs, but she will recover from
that; she will shed them the moment they cease to serve her purpose.
I am going to a club now. I am going to talk to it about Savonarola.
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