Miss America; pen and camera sketches of the American girlBlack, Alexander
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Miss America; pen and camera sketches of the American girl
Black, Alexander
Women -- United States; Women -- United States -- Social conditions
I have in mind a family living in Washington city, where there is, as
everyone knows, a highly seasoned and heterogeneous society, a society
utterly different from any that is to be met with elsewhere in this
country, and one which on that account offers peculiarly excellent
opportunities for study on the part of those foreign observers who
enjoy being misled about us. If there is any place in the United States
where the American mother has opportunity for her administrative
genius, it is at the national capital. The peculiar conditions created
by political, diplomatic and administrative forces in the capital
of a republic, the prevalence of the open door, and the presence of
both domestic and foreign transients who do not always appreciate
the limitations of liberal custom, make Washington a place apart. A
single instance may serve to illustrate the firmness of the women who
actually control social destiny. Under circumstances which it is not
necessary to detail, a certain elegant attaché of one of the legations
began calling upon the young lady of the family I have named. He was a
handsome and entertaining young man, easy with women and cordial with
men, glib in the arts, himself a good singer, and speaking English with
a fascinating inflection. One evening the mother said quietly to the
daughter: “Grace, the next time the Count calls I wish that you would
ask to be excused.” The daughter looked her astonishment. She was not
greatly interested in the count, yet he was very agreeable, and she
said so. But her mother said, “Grace, you must trust me.” And when the
count came again he was made to understand.
It was a simple, unsensational incident, but because I knew the liberal
ethics of the mother and the apparently complete independence of the
daughter (she was twenty-three) the incident the more effectively
reminded me that though the American mother does not feel it incumbent
upon her to closely hover over her offspring with a solicitous wing,
she not the less observes and governs. It so happened that the gilded
count a few months later became involved in so gross a scandal that
his withdrawal from Washington became imperative. Influence in his
government saved him from worse annoyance than transfer to another
court. The mother’s instinct had been true. And who can doubt that a
liberally reared girl, when she herself assumes the office of mother,
will, without having to make sinister payment for her knowledge, be the
better equipped for a judgment of the world in the interest of those
who may be dependent upon her authority?
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