Miss America; pen and camera sketches of the American girlBlack, Alexander
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Miss America; pen and camera sketches of the American girl
Black, Alexander
Women -- United States; Women -- United States -- Social conditions
Did you ever see a bridal scrap-book? A Tennessee girl, wedded a year,
unfolded one for me, and it proved to be a wonderful affair. In the
early pages were pasted invitations, dancing cards, concert and theatre
programs, tinfoil from bouquets, ribbons from gifts, valentines and
a curious miscellany of souvenirs. Then came the cover from the box
that had held the engagement-ring, a copy of the wedding invitation,
newspaper comments on the engagement and the wedding. Later pages held
a railroad map showing the wedding journey, Pullman car vouchers,
express labels, hotel menus, miniature camera “views,” with much more
that I cannot remember. And on a certain page of this scrap book,
reserved somehow, for the purpose, all of the guests at the wedding
had written their names. A few months after the wedding the husband
fell ill, and at the crisis his young wife chanced to find that the
list of names in the book omitted, among all of those who were at the
wedding, his alone. She was not superstitious, but the absence of that
name filled her with a new terror. The thing preyed upon her, and in
the still of night she slipped into the sick-room with book and pen,
and taking her husband’s unconscious hand, she traced his name there
upon the right page. He did not die, and when, one day, he came upon
the tremulous lines of that grotesque autograph, he did not chide the
forger.
We may have changed the names of some things, the cool breath of
realism may have touched the habits of our modern life, but probably
the heartbeat of sentiment to-day is not greatly faster or slower
than in the long ago. There was a noble tenderness and dignity in
some of the formalities of the past, as when John Winthrop began his
letter with: “Most kinde Ladie, Your sweete lettres coming from the
abundance of your love were joyefully received into the closet of my
best affections.” We do not say, “My only beloved Spouse, my most sweet
friend & faithful companion of my pilgrimage,” but let us hope that
nothing of the intrinsic beauty of love and marriage has suffered any
real loss.
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