Miss Beecher's Housekeeper and Healthkeeper: Containing Five Hundred Receipes for Economical and Healthful Cooking; also, Many Directions for Securing Health and HappinessBeecher, Catharine Esther
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Miss Beecher's Housekeeper and Healthkeeper: Containing Five Hundred Receipes for Economical and Healthful Cooking; also, Many Directions for Securing Health and Happiness
Beecher, Catharine Esther
Cooking; Home economics
“But, alas! how often is it impossible, for love or money, to obtain
one capable of taking the burden from the exhausted sister or mother
or daughter, and how often in consequence they have died prematurely
or struggled through weary years with a broken constitution. Appeal
to those who have made the trial, and you will find that very seldom
have they been able to have those who by nature or by training were
competent for their duties. Ignorant, unscrupulous, inattentive—how
often they disturb and injure the patient! A physician told me that
one of his patients had died because the nurse, contrary to orders,
had at a critical period washed her with cold water. One is known
who, by stealth, quieted a fretful child with laudanum, and of others
who exhausted the sick by incessant talking. One lady said that when,
to escape this distressing garrulity, she closed her eyes, the nurse
exclaimed, aloud, ‘Why, she is going to sleep while I am talking to
her.’
“A few only of the sensible, quiet, and loving women, whose presence
everywhere is a blessing, have qualified themselves and followed
nursing as a business. Heaven bless that few! What a sense of relief
pervades a family when such an one has been procured; and what a
treasure seemed found!
“There is very commonly an extreme susceptibility in the sick to the
_moral atmosphere_ about them. They feel the healthful influence of
the presence of a true-hearted attendant and repose in it, though they
may not be able to define the cause; while dissimulation, falsehood,
recklessness, coarseness, jar terribly and injuriously on their
heightened sensibilities. ‘Are the Sisters of Charity really better
nurses than most other women?’ asked an intelligent lady who had
seen much of our military hospitals. ‘Yes, they are,’ was the reply.
‘Why should it be so?’ 'I think it is because with them it is a work
of self-abnegation, and of duty to God; and they are so quiet and
self-forgetful in its exercise that they do it better, while many other
women show such self-consciousness and are so fussy!”
Is there any reason why every Protestant woman should not be trained
for this self-denying office as _a duty owed to God_?
We can not better close this chapter than by one more quotation from an
intelligent and attractive writer: “The good nurse is an artist. Oh the
pillowy, soothing softness of her touch, the neatness of her simple,
unrustling dress, the music of her assured yet gentle voice and tread,
the sense of security and rest inspired by her kind and hopeful face,
the promptness and attention to every want, the repose that like an
atmosphere encircles her, the evidence of heavenly goodness and love
that she diffuses!” Is not such an art as this worth much to attain?
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