Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
And further, let us remember that it will not be a step forward in
progress; rather will it be a sign of failure, a step made necessary by
the confusion and conflicts of our industrial civilisation. We delude
ourselves for want of knowledge when we think that we are thus advancing
to something that is new. The long houses of Iroquois Indians, the joint
tenement houses of the Pueblo peoples of New Mexico and Arizona, and
the village communities common among the Panang Highlanders of Sumatra
are a few instances of the many early experiments in communistic life.
Even Garden Suburbs have been tried by the Creek Indians of Georgia,
where the natives live together in groups of associated dwellings.[73]
Did I not tell you that many of the reforms we are seeking in the belief
that they are new discoveries, giving proof of our progress, are really
worn-out forms that are as old as mankind? They are even older. I would
recall the curious experiments in co-operative child-rearing made by the
Adélie penguins, noted in Chapter V. These pre-human parents would seem
to be troubled with a strongly developed egoism. Craving liberty for
play, they pool their families in what I may perhaps call “the primordial
co-operative nursery scheme”—a plan of child-rearing much advocated by
advanced feminists. Among the penguins the results are not satisfactory.
True, the penguin mothers have liberty to play with the penguin fathers,
but the price thereby paid is an excessively high mortality among the
young birds.[74]
I recognise that co-operative nurseries and proposals for freeing mothers
to work outside the home have interest for some women, and consequently
have their use: they will help, no doubt, those women who while desiring
and physically fit to bear children, yet have no capacity or wish to care
for them. There are many such women to-day. I regard this as a great evil.
It has been left to modern intellectual women to fail utterly to
understand the primary value of the home. Its first service is to immerse
the child in a _protective environment of its own_. I wish to emphasise
these five concluding words. They will make clearer why I believe so
firmly in the patriarchal individual family. Each child needs to feel in
personal connection with its surroundings—that what is nearest to him
belongs to him and is his own. And this connection can be established
only by love, and maintained by a lasting tradition of duty on the part
of both the parents bound to each other in service to the child.
It is often objected that children are happier and healthier away from
their parents, and that no conditions could possibly be worse than those
which exist in countless homes. I know this. But it is no indictment
against the home as an institution, rather it is an indictment of the
kind of home and of the mother and the father.
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