Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
The meaning of these figures is plain: the unmarried mother cannot give
proper care to her child, as a rule she cannot feed it, and, deprived of
its natural nourishment, it is more likely to die, and, if it lives, it
will be less strong to meet life. This is proved by the vital statistics,
which show that the illegitimate babies, unlike legitimate babies, are
not stricken with death in the first week of infant life; they die more
frequently in the second month than in the first, and more frequently
in the third than in the second month. Illegitimates at birth are equal
to legitimate children; indeed, from these statistics they would seem
to be born stronger. It is evident that the high death-rate among them
is caused only by defective nutrition and want of sufficient care. In
other words, these children are killed needlessly by our neglect. For the
sin of their deaths rests upon each and all of us, until we rise up and
refuse to accept conditions that permit children to be born only to die.
And while you grasp the offence of these facts, do not be consoled by
thinking that this open infantile slaughter is the only or indeed the
greatest, evil that follows from our indifference. No statistics can
do more than shadow the extent of the wrong; motherhood brought to
despair—the child-murders that fortunately remain hidden, the secret
abortions, the concealed births, the still-born children who might have
been born alive. We have suffered these things. But it is the race that
pays and rots; the penalty for our sins of neglect is paid by these
innocent little ones.
Let me at this place insert a brief digression to point out one
particular that it is very necessary for us to remember. There are many
types among these unmarried mothers, as many as there are among married
women; and some would be good mothers did we allow them the opportunity,
others would not be good mothers under any circumstances, because they
are weak in character and are incapable of maternal sacrifice. Now, the
problem of the saving of the child is quite a separate one in these
opposite cases: in the one instance everything ought to be done to keep
the child with its mother, in the other the one safeguard is to keep the
child wholly out of the mother’s power.
I will give the reader four cases from my own knowledge to make this
fact clearer; they will, I believe, speak more forcibly than any mere
statement of my own opinion.
The first case shows illegitimacy at its very lowest—motherhood made
a crime. The facts were told to me by a doctor friend on whose word I
can rely absolutely. A company of five or six men were gathered in some
outbuildings of a country farm, among them was one who was half-witted.
In an adjoining barn was a girl, also half-witted. The men joked one with
another; a bet was made, and the half-witted man was sent to seek the
girl. This he did, and as the result of this hideous act a child was born
and lived. I do not know what became of it.
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