Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
In the second case also the woman was quite unfitted to be a mother,
though her character and the circumstances were as different as possible.
This time the mother was highly born and educated. Though I knew
her fairly well, I was unacquainted with her family history, which
probably would show many features of great interest. She was of neurotic
temperament, and belonged to the type I have classed as the siren woman.
She had several lovers, as she was strongly sexual. By one of these
men, and by mistake, a child was born. The father refused to accept the
responsibilities of his fatherhood, though he did not deny that the
child was his. The mother also had no love for it, and the little one
would have been neglected and probably would have died. But, when about
two months old, the child was taken from its mother and cared for and
most tenderly loved by one of the woman’s lovers. He left her, as her
indifference to her child killed his affection, but he took her child to
bring up as his own son.
The third case is more usual, and shows us illegitimacy as it most
commonly occurs. The events happened in the north of England, where
once I lived. The girl was well known to me. She was of respectable
parentage, and very beautiful; she would have made a good mother. The
father did not live in the same village, and I did not know him; but I
heard he was young and strong; he was the gardener at the place where
the girl was servant; probably the child would have been healthy. But
the girl was sent from her situation as soon as her condition was known
to her Christian (!) mistress; later she was driven from her home by her
fanatically religious (!) father. Thus hounded to death and to crime she
sought refuge in a disused quarry; she was there for two days without
food. It was winter. When we found her, her child had been born and was
dead. Afterwards the girl went mad.[92]
I will add no comment, because I feel quite unable to write calmly. I can
only record my belief that under a more moral public opinion and saner
social organisation such crimes of mothers against their children would
be impossible. Infanticide is committed always, I believe, under the
biting pressure of want and despair.
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