Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
In Australia, where women possess a larger share than elsewhere in
making and administering the law, much practical attention has been
given to these matters and a number of reforms have been made which act
directly in helping the child. Thus, in South Australia, paternity may
be proved by the mother _before_ the birth of the child; when this is
done, the father must furnish security, by order of a magistrate, that
he will find lodging for the mother for one month before and one month
after her confinement, as well as pay the doctor and the nurse, and
provide clothing for the child. After the child is born, the father pays
a weekly sum, at the decision of the magistrate, to the mother for its
maintenance. Children are legitimised on the marriage of their parents.
In New Zealand (again a land where women’s influence is strong) an
illegitimate child is now registered in the name of the father, where
paternity is proved.
Changes in the law, all favourable to the legal position of the child,
have been made in Denmark, in Sweden, and in Switzerland. In this last
country the bastard has all the rights of a child born in marriage, when
once paternity has been recognised. And if the mother fails to find the
father, the child himself, or his guardian, can take proceedings. A
similar law, recently enacted, is now in force in Sweden: in Denmark the
father supports the child up to the age of eighteen; he provides for the
mother for one month before and one month after the birth of the child.
The money for such help is paid to the mother by the authorities, and
is afterwards claimed by them from the father. This may seem of small
importance, yet it is our carelessness in such details that, in great
measure, causes the utter futility of our laws.
I would ask you to consider very carefully these different wise and
practical measures. Do they not show more common sense than our methods?
Are they not more in line with the modern spirit—the spirit, that is, of
intelligent seeking for the advantage of the child? And here at length do
we not see the way that in the future may lead us to more moral action
and greater justice in the framing of our laws? A wider knowledge has
grown with our inquiry and an understanding of what we have to do.
_The welfare of the child is the one consideration that matters._
I must drive this fact home again, even though I risk wearying my readers
with repetition: our present immoral laws are practically equivalent to
freeing the man from his obligations as a father; they drive unmarried
mothers to death and prostitution; they are the direct cause of
infanticide. Again I would urge practical and prompt action, which alone
can bring us nearer to moral conduct by making responsibility a necessary
condition of all sexual relationships, however carelessly and transiently
they are entered into.
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