Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
(3) The father’s responsibility should be truly recognised so that, if
the mother is driven to commit any deed of violence against the child, he
must be held accountable with her and punished, should he have known of
her condition and refused to help her.
(4) In the case of the death of the mother, it should be possible to
bring an order against the father or the supposed father. The mortality
in childbed in these cases is much higher than among married women, and
it is clearly unfair that the mother’s death should leave the child
unprotected, without any power on the part of its guardians to compel the
father to fulfil his parental responsibilities.
(5) The father against whom an order has been made must be prevented
from leaving the country unless he has first paid a sum sufficient to
discharge his obligations or has made suitable arrangements for payments
during his absence.
Probably all these conditions could better be secured if paternity was
proved before, instead of after, the birth of the child. Registration on
the part of the woman at the time of conception would be the best way to
prevent the crime of anonymous paternity.
There is much more that ought to be done. We shall still be far behind
the reforms of Norway. But the carrying out of even these simple demands
will lead us a great step forward in practical morality. Can we, I ask
myself, who in this twentieth century no longer are quite ignorant as
to the factors that act in the making of fit citizens, who know that of
all causes tending towards degeneracy, bad ante-natal and early life
conditions are the greatest, can we pursue our policy of carelessness
as if this knowledge were not ours? A recognition of the claims of the
child is being forced home by our need. No longer can we afford to be
careless of the life of the future. A new sense of our responsibility—a
responsibility not to punish sin, but to prevent sin—is surely dawning on
our social conscience. And as soon as we understand, we must hasten to
reform our inhuman bastardy laws.
CONTENTS OF CHAPTER XIII
THE DANGER OF SECRET DISEASES
Extent of the evil—Why these diseases are not treated—Need
for secrecy prevents those afflicted from obtaining the best
treatment—Recommendations of the Royal Commission—Enlightened
interest in the subject needed—Desire to punish men prevents
wise action—If men fear to tell the truth they are more
likely to infect their wives—Three attitudes towards the
evil—Bad effects on both boys and girls of too romantic
views of love—Woman often to blame for cleavage between
husband and wife—The wife’s responsibility for the husband’s
unfaithfulness—The art of love—Certain reflections.
CHAPTER XIII
THE DANGER OF SECRET DISEASES
“The abolition of prostitution and the suppression of venereal
diseases would be almost tantamount to the solution of the
entire sexual problem.”—IWAN BLOCH.
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