Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes — John Shaqi
Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
We should note that insufficient or unsuitable food is the chief cause
of malnutrition and illness in children, and investigations seem to show
that wrong feeding is the more prevalent. Thus Dr. Gould, writing of
the children he examined in Bolton, says, “it is obvious that defective
nutrition is due to dietetic ignorance on the parents’ part or to
parental neglect.” Dr. Macdonald of Northampton, reporting on 448 cases
examined in 1914, corroborates this view, stating in the course of his
report of adenoidal children, “Many are suffering, not from insufficiency
of food (that, I think, far from common in Northampton), but from bad
food and badly prepared food.” Again, Dr. Orr of Shrewsbury writes, “The
subject of unsuitable food is a very important one. The women of the
working classes often show a surprising ignorance of the proper methods
of cooking for family requirements, a want of knowledge of the value
and suitability of food stuffs, and too often a general incompetence
respecting household management.”[6] I may add as corroboration an
instance from my own knowledge; one that would be comic, if it were not
so piteous. A party of poor workings girls were invited to a meal; they
were asked what they would like to have to eat. They answered, “Bread and
pickles,” and added, “Pickles are so sustaining!”
Who can doubt the greatness of the evil that is going on? I could add
many more facts at least equally impressive with the few that I have
given, all witnessing to weakness in the constitution of our children,
to disease and dirt, and every other painful result of ignorance and
neglect. And does not all this speak of unfit motherhood; of women
ill-trained as women and incapacitated for their supreme duty? There is
failure somewhere. We have to find out where that failure is.
For I wish to make it very clear that I am not blaming the individual
mother. What I do blame are the conditions of our civilisation that have
called her into being. I have before me the admirable but infinitely
distressing book, _Maternity: Letters from Working Women_. They are the
outcome of an inquiry into the condition of working-class motherhood made
by the Women’s Co-operative Guild. Nothing that I can say, or that any
other writer could say, can have the reality and the bitter vividness
of these letters written by the women themselves. I am able to quote
only scattered sentences taken from a few letters just as they come and
without special selection.
(1) MOTHER INJURED IN GIRLHOOD
“_Through being left without a mother when a baby—father was a very
large farmer and girls were expected to do men’s work—I, at the age of
sixteen, lifted weights that deformed the pelvis bones, therefore making
confinement a very difficult case. I have five fine healthy girls, but
the boys have all had to have the skull-bones taken away to get them past
the pelvis.… I wish more could be done to train growing girls to be more
careful._”
(2) A WAGE-EARNING MOTHER
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