Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
How can healthy womanhood be possible within the limits and wrong
ideals of our present system, and how can they fail to give rise to
continuous restlessness? I declare once more and plainly that we are
raising a generation of girls—those with whom the duties of wifehood
and motherhood should reside—who have instincts atrophied by dull
studies, to be followed by deadening work. I hold that this is a matter
of the gravest concern, not only for women and men and their individual
happiness in union one with the other, but is also what will decide the
future of this land and empire.
But few among us understand the destruction that is working in our
midst. We do not recognise the symptoms that mark the disharmony in
the lives of the great majority of the girls and young women of the
present generation. War has but increased the mischief. Independence in
material things has given triumph to that rebellion which our mistaken
training and wrong ideal had started long ago smouldering in the souls
of our daughters. To-day youth is in demand; the young girl can fill
every place. And youth has risen fearlessly and splendidly to every
opportunity, but so quickly as not to have time to consider how much
is being trampled underfoot. The danger of speed—the filling of every
moment of time, always a mistake made by women—has been intensified by
the war. The war race has provided the opportunity to live riotously and
wastefully.
Of course, it is we of the older generation—the mothers—who are to blame.
We have left our daughters in a dangerous position; we did not see where
modern education, with its effort to obliterate sex, must inevitably lead.
Education may be either a most helpful or a most dangerous process. And
what is most to be feared is the shut-in instincts that tend to twist
the nature from its simple fulfilment. There is something essentially
harmful in any failure or wrong expression of a special function. Now, we
have insisted upon repressions, and what we believed to be a high moral
and efficient working character for girls, not knowing that what we so
mistakenly were straining for was really something very like an entire
absence of any kind of womanly character. The real nature of girls is
wild, and our fears have been very great. And for this reason have we
held that the nakedness of the adolescent’s new-born womanhood must be
clothed with conventionalities and draped with culture.
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