Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
“_Judging from my own experience, a fair amount of knowledge at the
commencement of pregnancy would do a lot of good. One may have a good
mother who would be willing to give information, but to people like
myself your mother is the last person you would talk to about yourself or
your state.… I have learnt the most useful things since my children grew
up. The idea that you impress the child all through with your habits and
ways, or that its health is to a great extent hindered or helped by your
own well-being, was quite unknown to me._”
(8) ANOTHER CASE
“_When I was married, I had to leave my own town to go out into the
world, as it were, and when I had to have my first baby, I knew
absolutely nothing, not even how they were born. I had many a time
thought how cruel (not wilfully, perhaps) my mother was not to tell me
all about the subject when I left home.… When my baby was born I had been
in my labour for thirty-six hours, and did not know what was the matter
with me.… It was only a seven-months baby, and I feel quite sure if I had
been told anything about pregnancy it would not have happened. I carried
a heavy piece of oilcloth, which brought on labour.… I knew very little
about feeding children, when they cried I gave them the breast. If I had
known then what I know now my children would have been living. I was
ignorant, and had to suffer severely for it, for it nearly cost me my
life, and also those of my children. I very often ponder over this part
of my life. I must not say anything about my mother now, because she is
dead, but I cannot help thinking what might have been if she had told
me._”
(9) HEALTHY MOTHERHOOD, GIVEN AS A CONTRAST
“_Although I have had eight children and one miscarriage, I am afraid my
experience would not help you in the least, as I am supposed to be one of
those women who can stand anything. During my pregnancy, I have always
been able to do my own work._
“_With the boys labour has only lasted twenty minutes, girls a little
longer. I have never needed a doctor’s help, and it has always been over
before he came.… My idea is that everything depends on how a woman lives,
and how healthy she was born. I had the advantage of never having to
work before I was married and never have wanted for money, so when the
struggle came I had a strong constitution to battle with it all._”
(10) ANOTHER FORTUNATE CASE
“_I must be one of the fortunate ones. I have always had fairly good
health during pregnancy and good times at confinements and getting up.… I
owe my good health to being well nourished and looked after by my mother
when I was a growing girl. I think if all young girls of to-day are
properly cared for, it will make all the difference to the mothers of the
future, and save much suffering during pregnancy and after._”
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