Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
The difficulties, of course, are numerous. And, first of all, it will not
be easy to find the right teachers for these adolescent schools. They
will need to be specially trained; but training alone will not serve. The
teachers must have had a much wider experience of life than is usual to
women; they ought to have genius and a passionate love of children: they
need to be mothers in spirit.
Necessarily, the expense of such teachers and of these special schools,
which should be established in great numbers and with no thought of
sparing the cost, will be heavy. It will be thought, I know, by many that
this fact alone makes the plan impracticable. I can answer only, that any
expenditure that will produce fit and glad mothers for the future is an
expense that will be met by a wise nation.
I would urge that this question be approached from a practical attitude.
On all sides concern is being felt at the decline in the birth-rate,
which has fallen one-third in the last thirty-five years. The Royal
Commission that I have referred to already has made its investigation and
issued its report. Much has been written on the problem, and many guesses
made as to the vaguely understood causes. The economists find all the
evil in economic conditions; the religious say that it is our morality
that is at fault. Many are the remedies suggested, a few of which are
practical and good. And so urgent is the matter felt to be, now that war
with its destruction of life is teaching us a little more the value of
life, that changes, long called for, but hitherto seemingly unattainable,
shortly may be made in our divorce and marriage laws. The sharp and cruel
line drawn between the married and the unmarried mother will at last
waver and break on its rotten supports. Already the saving of child life
has become a matter of such urgent need that much necessary reform is
being accomplished. There is little doubt that these valuable movements
will go on.
Yet, I think, we are failing to attack the real cause, and unless we do
attack it there, right at the beginning, we shall go on as we usually
do, experimenting in this way and in that, doing one thing and leaving
another undone, and we shall only tinker and fuss and then wonder why we
fail. Blind and fools! we fail, and shall go on failing, because we do
not educate our girls and act in life in such a way as will encourage
motherhood.
I have put out my idea: I have tried to be as explicit as possible in
suggesting the remedy. I am conscious now of opposition that will be
raised. I shall be told that my plan, which seems so simple, of educating
girls to be women is not practicable. And then I shall be reminded of
the immense surplus of women in this country who are unable to marry and
live a full and healthy life—a surplus large before the war, enormously
greater now.[107]
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