Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
Woman is the giver, the interpreter. Freedom for her never can be
identified with self-assertion. Great elementary truths to-day have
acquired an intensified significance. Oppression stretches like a rod
over the earth, the world is ploughed with swords and reaped in blood.
The echoes of slaughter reach from land to land. The cataclysm, with its
immense appeal to terror and love and hate and pity, has acted to stir
us profoundly and quicken our response to the emotional aspects of life.
Old prejudices are rooted up; institutions are in the melting-pot. A
people habitually resistant to emotion, we have been awakened to reality.
I cannot doubt that we shall profit. We were occupied in intellectual
pleasures and energies, but now our souls have been harrowed. This is
the great opportunity if we have the will to use it.
Fear has been in us the folly irredeemable, planted like seeds of the
wild weeds among our wheat. Even in our childhood doubt has slept with
us in our cradles, as verily we have been conceived in sin, being born
without passionate joy. And this disharmony has followed us up and down
in the home; doubt was our schoolfellow, ever following our steps in our
work and in our play, until fear has become our perpetual companion. I
see the past, the present and the future existing all at once before me,
and I know that as soon as fear is conquered redemption is ready.
Then no longer will the blessings of the Psalmist be changed by our
faithless folly into cursing, but again the wife shall be as a fruitful
vine by the sides of the house and the children like olive plants around
the table. Behold, thus shall the woman and the man be blessed together,
and they shall see good all the days of their life.
But this regeneration will come only through the creation of our wills.
Without unceasing desire nothing can be done. Desire is action. If you
leave off desiring salvation you are lost.
I tell you no virtue can be found apart from our desires. Life is the
struggle everlasting, unceasing sacrifice, constant aspiration.
What is the secret, if it is not Love?
The spirit of Life is Love triumphant, the immortal force which incites
the struggle, makes glad the sacrifice, which stirs the desire to
achieve. And the law of Love is as easy to state as it is difficult to
apply: it is the transforming of the will which says “mine” into the will
which says “thine.” It is a law that can be comprehended only by living
it.
I shall be called old-fashioned. Yet, perhaps, after all, I see further,
deeper, and more surely than those who call me so.
The union of the man and the woman cleaving to each other can be the
wonder of life. Marriage should be a blessing of the senses, a kindling
of the spirit, a mutual surrender, and a new creation.
Creation is not accomplished; it is continuous and unceasing, and in its
work every living thing has its share, destroying and creating.
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