Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
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In the widest treatment of the maternal instinct it will not suffice to
narrow our attention to the function of human motherhood, or to take up
our study of the conditions relating to the mother and the child as we
find them amongst us to-day. Were I to do this and to attempt at once
to bring forward my own views, with the reforms that I wish for in this
matter, my work would be as a building without a firm foundation, more or
less uncertain, and for this reason valueless.
To get a proper grip of all that is here concerned we must understand
that the maternal instinct is the deepest and strongest instinct in
woman. It is in the emotions and actions either directly arising from
or connected with motherhood that we find the real difference between
the sexes. In its essence the parental instinct belongs to woman alone.
The male may be infected with its energy—we witness this among birds,
as well as in humbler animals, where the duties of caring for offspring
are shared and, in some cases, carried out by the male alone; but man
possesses, as yet, its faint analogy only. It is the most primary of all
women’s qualities.[9]
Now, why is this? Why is woman’s being so much more strongly infected
with motherhood than the man’s with fatherhood?
It is a question not so readily to be answered as it might appear. If we
find the explanation in the intimate connection between the mother and
the child we have not, I think, exhausted the matter. We must not forget
that other questions remain behind unanswered, all centring round the one
question to which an adequate answer is so difficult to find: How has
this arisen? The fact has to be explained that the sharp separation in
the parental impulse and the parental duties, so strong amongst us, has
not always existed; that there are many examples in the history of life
which show an exactly opposite condition.
To find the clue it will thus be necessary to turn our attention to the
earlier stages of life where, in particular among insects, reptiles,
fishes, and birds, we find the widest possible range of difference in
the expression of the parental instinct and the most varied relations
existing between parents and offspring. Here indeed, among these
pre-human parents, we can study the maternal instinct in the making.
There are many new and strange facts for us to learn.
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