Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
Here, it may be remarked in passing, we seem to see the first faint
expression of the father’s interest in the family, which, if I may
hazard a guess, may have started in this way as a means of gaining his
desire with the female. The correctness of this surmise will receive
considerable confirmation as we proceed with our inquiry. And if
analogies with animal conduct were not so apt to be misleading, I would
venture to suggest the persistence of the same egoistic factor among many
human fathers. But for the present I must leave this question.
From the very beginning of life parental sacrifice is more common in the
mother; it is in exceptional cases that her devotion is shared by the
father. But such good fathers are of special importance to our inquiry.
Even more interesting are those species among which the father takes
all charge of the young, while the mother spends her time away from the
family. Nor is this departure from what we may call the normal order of
the family so surprising as at first sight it may seem, if we can account
for the necessity under which probably it arose and seek to explain it.
The welfare of the young is a matter of vital urgency; instinct dictates
to the animals what reason dictates to us. Nature, as if to show
her resourcefulness, her love of successful experiments, is always
discovering contrary ways of attaining the same end. And what I wish to
make clear is this: when, for some reason that we do not know, the family
cares are neglected by the mothers, the work of tending and feeding the
young is undertaken by the fathers. I shall have much more to say on
this question at a later stage, and I ask you to keep it persistently in
the focus of your attention. I desire to emphasise it at once. Whatever
groups of animals we survey, we shall find examples of this replacement
of the mother by the father, new aspects of the family, which may afford
us a better grip of some problems that at present elude us.
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