Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
One of the difficulties that has met me in my studies of the family among
the animals is that, as we ascend the scale of life, there is a moral
retrogression in fatherhood—at least, that is how it appears to me. There
are, as far as I have found, no examples among mammals, the highest and
last group of the animal kingdom, of devoted fathers undertaking the sole
charge of the young, and few where the father even shares with the mother
to any extent in the work connected with the upbringing of the family.
The egoistic desires seem to increase in the males, with a corresponding
weakening of their interest in the family and willingness to participate
in its duties. The young are carried by the mother alone, they are
protected chiefly by her; the father takes no part in the nursery cares,
and rarely does he help in providing food for the children. The family is
maternal, the female—the mother—its centre; the male is bound sexually to
the female, but apart from this his connection with the family is slight;
we find him most frequently following personal interests.
In contrast with the conduct of the fathers in the families we have so
far examined among the birds, reptiles, fishes and insects, with whom
the father’s solicitude and sacrifice for the young equals and, in some
cases, rivals that of the mother, this complete paternal indifference is
really very startling. It demands our attention.
What factors have brought about this reversal, which at first sight
appears so strange? Why is it that the parental instinct diminishes
in the father and is now fixed in the mother? It is, however, easy to
understand this change if we consider what now happens, and the changed
conditions under which the young are born. The mammals do not lay eggs
like bird and reptile mothers, but each mother retains the eggs within
her body, and so secures for the young warmth and protection far more
certainly than would be possible in the best-contrived nest or home.[47]
But this has led to changed habits. No nest or brooding-home has to be
made, and the same preparations for the family, which hitherto have
united in work the father with the mother, are unnecessary. Again, food
has not now to the same extent to be collected and stored in readiness
for the future needs of the children. The embryo, living within the body
of its mother, gains the food for its growth directly from her blood.
The connection between mother and child now is closer; her condition
and health become of direct importance for the welfare of the young. At
the same time the importance of the father is sharply lessened. This is
plain. The early stages of mother-care, instead of being conscious and
external acts regulated by special circumstances and often modified to
meet different needs, now become part of the unconscious functions of the
body of the mother—the child is an extension of herself. The advantage
to the offspring of this change from external to internal protection
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