Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
is great, in the added safety thereby gained from fixed functions over
the habits that might be slurred over, bungled or forgotten. I think,
however, that there is a corresponding loss—that parenthood becomes more
possibly irresponsible and, at the same time, individualism becomes
stronger. Birth, with narrowed opportunity for intelligent adaptation, is
more of an unconsidered incident; I mean that before it occurs it demands
much less from the parents in sacrifice and in work. This is certainly
the case with the father, whose part in gaining offspring is reduced to a
single momentary act, and one, moreover, that is prompted by the fiercest
egoistic desire.
But I think, too, there is a deterioration, though much less in degree,
in the quality of motherhood. The preparation made for the birth of her
children by the mammal mother is very slight, indeed, in many cases the
mother appears to be unaware of the approaching event until the actual
birth begins. Here is an account of a langur monkey, whose first baby
was born in the London Zoological Gardens, at which event the mother
seemed to be utterly surprised. The birth took place at night, and the
mother, from the marks in the cage, must have dragged up and down the
new, astonishing object. But by the morning she had grown accustomed to
the baby, and held it pressed closely to her breast, from time to time
thrusting the head outwards and eagerly looking at it. For several weeks
the baby never left her, and she showed endless curiosity and pleasure in
it, ceaselessly examining it, turning it over, stroking it and keeping
it clean with her hands. She was jealous of visitors, and when they came
near to the cage she would turn round so as to hide the baby from them.
The father, in case of accidents, had been taken away and put in the
adjoining cage, which was shut off by a piece of canvas. He made a hole
in this, and from time to time, especially when the mother or baby made
any noise, he would raise the torn flap and peep through.[48]
It must be remembered that among the mammals it is the rule for the young
to be suckled by the mother, a mode of feeding already foreshadowed by
many bird parents and some insects. But with them the special nursery
food is prepared from their own food by incessant work, undertaken, as
a rule, by both parents. The act of suckling, on the other hand, occurs
without conscious work, and is a function in which the father has no
concern whatever.
I have no facts to trace the steps whereby this function of maternal
feeding was developed and established, but I would suggest that, apart
from the advantage to the young of a special diet, the immense labour
entailed on the parents in obtaining food—the foraging over wide areas
and the carrying of the provisions back to the nursery—made it a question
of economy; and that the mother, as more usually being with the young,
was the parent who came without conscious effort to prepare for them in
her body this early nourishment.
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