Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
Again, among the even-toed ungulates (pigs, peccaries and hippopotami)
we find marked maternal affection and care. Little pigs are feeble at
birth, and are sedulously guarded by their mother. A hippopotamus baby
(the family usually consists of one only) stays with its mother for a
long time, probably several years, and when the mother goes to and fro
to the water to feed, the little one rides on her back. The fathers take
no notice at all of the young. The odd-toed ungulates (horses, asses and
zebras, and the tapirs and rhinoceroses) live in herds. The young are
active soon after birth and able to follow their mothers, who have great
affection for them. The males will protect the females and young when
the herd is attacked if a fight is unavoidable, but they prefer to seek
safety in flight. The fathers do not appear to have any affection for the
young.[63]
Among the numerous classes of rodents, where the young are born naked,
blind and helpless, the whole duty of their upbringing is undertaken
by the mother. “I do not know of any instance,” states Mr. P. Chalmers
Mitchell, “in which the male takes care of the young; generally they
either neglect them altogether, or attack them and persecute them.”
From such pictures as these the position of the father in the family
will readily be seen. No longer bound by domestic ties to the young,
he knows no duty to the family except the rule of jealous ownership.
How complete is the change in the family organisation. How sharp is the
contrast between these indifferent males, jealous and fighting, and the
devoted fathers among the birds, fishes, reptiles and insects, uniting
with the mothers as working partners in the home-making, food-providing,
and all the care of the young. The father is now alone—separated from
the family, banded with other males. And do you not see how this change,
and the indifference of the males to any interests but their own, have
forced the mothers into closer union with the family? The male strength,
the gorgeous display of sex-charms, the fierce fighting for prey and
for love, are now markedly developed. But this polygamous jealousy and
egoism acts really for the advantage of the females. It is the egoistic
male conduct that forces altruism upon them. I attach great importance to
this. I maintain that the forcing out of the father from his service and
earlier important position of a worker in the circle of the family served
as a means to the end of deepening and fixing the maternal instinct in
the mothers. What was lost for fatherhood was gained for motherhood.
Self-sacrifice became once and for ever the supreme joy and privilege of
the female.
We have found the clue we were seeking.
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