Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
Further than this I must not go. The first part of my inquiry has come
to an end. There is little more that I need to say. It may seem to the
reader that the animal family, in a book written to establish the duties
and rights of human motherhood, has received too much attention. To those
who hold this view I can say only that I do not agree with them. In
forethought and sacrifice for the well-being of the young—the devotion
of the father as well as of the mother—these pre-human parents do not
yield precedence to many human families. They deserve our attentive
study. But I have no hope, nor much desire, to convince those of an
opposite opinion, who hold that we are so much higher and different from
the animals that we can learn nothing from them. To all such I would
recommend again that they leave this section of my book unread.
There is, however, another objection that may be raised. It may be
thought that too much stress has been laid on the father and his
connection with the family, that my choice of illustrations has been
biased, and cases taken in which the father’s devotion is unusually
prominent. This I have done. And I have done it of fixed purpose. In the
first place, I desired to prove the error in the common opinion that the
parental instinct has at all times been the endowment of the female,
stronger in her than in the male. I wanted it to be known that in the
beginning of the family the father was as true a parent as the mother,
his devotion sometimes being greater than hers. Then, secondly, I hoped,
by means of the insight that the many and great changes in the past
conditions of the family afford us, to establish the close connection
which does at all times exist between parental devotion and the duties
performed in feeding and caring for the young. The parent who sacrifices
most is the parent who loves most. Some of the suggestions I have made
may be more or less open to question, but not a few, I think, are true in
the light of the facts that cannot be questioned. I am fully aware of the
omissions and inadequacy of my summary; probably I have made mistakes. I
think this could not have been prevented. Much ground had to be covered.
The illustrations I have been able to give of each stage in the history
of parenthood are few, compared with the rich number that might be
studied. I have made no attempt at completeness, nor have I tried to set
up any exact order of behaviour. Life is too full of surprises for such
arbitrary theories. I have, however, tried to make clear certain ideas
that have forced themselves very strongly upon my attention during my own
studies.
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