Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
picture, speaking of cheerfulness, rest, and comfort. Here, if you show
your husband, from the first, that you are always interested in his
outside labors and duties, he will gladly come to talk over the day’s
doings; and it will not take long to teach him that a good, true wife
is the best adviser he can have,--that his business knowledge and your
womanly insight and tact, united, will solve dubious questions, and
unravel troublesome tangles, quite as safely and far more pleasantly
than any assistance and advice sought outside of _home_. And in after
life, think you, will it not be pleasant to look back and trace much of
your happiness to the fascinations and attractions you so skillfully
gathered about the pleasant sitting-room, when you, as “young people,”
took sweet counsel together, and laid the foundation for mutual
confidence and true domestic peace? Had you secured the most elegant
parlors, but left this room cold and barren, negligently kept, and
destitute of any special attraction, do you think your prospects of
happiness would have been as bright? Or can you feel that you would
deserve that they should be? It is your work, young wife, to make the
_home_. Your husband may provide and furnish the means, but it is for
you to see that they are used for mutual happiness.
Next to the sitting-room, the dining-room must be the most carefully
arranged. Strange how few give heed to this! It is sometimes a low,
dark, ill-constructed room, reached by stairs often unsafe by reason
of darkness, and usually opening so abruptly to the kitchen that the
appetite is destroyed the moment you enter by the fumes from cooking
which have been gathering in the dining-room all the morning; and the
pleasant intercourse which should enliven each meal is often sadly
interrupted by overmuch talking from the adjacent kitchen. If there
ever is dispute or misfortune there, it seems always destined to occur
while you are at your table. Our city dining rooms are too frequently
after this pattern. Here is some excuse; for we must expect, in one way
or another, to be “cabined, cribbed, and confined” in the city; but in
the free, bright country, there can seldom be any such excuse given,
and yet the same heedlessness with regard to anything pleasant in the
position of the dining-room is noticeable. Opening into a back yard or
clothes-yard, or overlooking the barn-yard, with nothing attractive
or cheerful,--this is thought good enough for a place to _feed in_. A
very great mistake; for here we should meet, not to eat hastily, and
rise up and go our ways, but there should be quite as much enjoyment in
free and cheerful conversation at the table as can possibly be secured
during the mere act of eating. A friend occasionally drops in; and when
children are gathered about the board, their little winning ways and
delightful prattle add wonderfully to the pleasure of the repast. Our
American men, when actively engaged in business, as a large proportion
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