Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
And the mother smiled complacently, with never a thought of the wicked
feelings she was cultivating in her child. O mothers! how can you be
so blind! Both by precept and example you are teaching your children
to make dress their idol, and to know very little of anything but that
which pertains to fashion; to be envious or contemptuous of their
little friends and companions, according as they are dressed better or
worse than themselves. Can you ever reflect that God did not commit
such treasures to your keeping without meaning some day to call upon
you to render up the account of your stewardship? What can you say,
when asked how you have trained the young souls given to your care?
Can you reply, “We have been instant in season and out of season in
teaching them,”--what? To work for the good of others; to learn to do
right; in all simplicity to love and obey the Saviour, who, taking a
little child in his arms, said, “Of such is the kingdom of heaven.”
_Of such?_ Ah, no! Not of such children as those; you are training to
avoid, not evil communications, but unfashionable companions; to look
on the outward adorning, and not on the heart.
But it is not alone the worldly-minded who make no pretence to any
higher law than their own selfish gratification, who bow the knee to
fashion. Christian mothers, are you guiltless? Think of the time,
the health and strength given to dress; the bondage which compels
you to pervert all real taste, to do violence to your own natural
instincts of neatness and true elegance, and accept the absurdities
of fashion, simply because the ruling style requires it. If you are
thus influenced and beguiled, do you flatter yourselves that your
children will not, from their earliest years, regard such homage as
important? We do not think it wrong to dress neatly and in as good
taste as possible. We blame none for giving so much thought to their
own dress and their children’s as to provide those articles that are
appropriate and becoming to the different styles of face, figure, and
complexion. It is natural, and we think right, for a mother to dress
her darlings as neatly and prettily as she can, without unnecessary
waste of time and strength; but we do think it sin to spend money and
time lavishly in following the dictates of fashion, and not of good
taste and common-sense; no one pretends to believe that there is either
of these in the present style of dressing. It is utterly destitute
of grace; is ridiculous to the last degree; but _fashion_ compels,
and women--_Christian women_--obey, and teach their little daughters
like obedience! O, the money, time, and strength given to destroy,
by the absurdities of fashionable dress, every vestige of beauty and
grace which God gave you in your little ones! Take the week through,
hour by hour, do you not give more time and thought to your own and
your children’s dress than you can spare for your Master’s service?
Do not your children gather from your daily walk and conversation
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