Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
that to be fashionably dressed is of more importance than loving and
serving the Saviour, who died for them and you? Judging by your daily
conversation, which will they think of the greatest importance, the
service of God, or devotion to fashion? To which do they see you
giving the largest part of your time, the adorning of their little
bodies,--“the plaiting the hair, the wearing of gold, and putting on
of apparel,”--or in teaching them that which is not changeable, “not
corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is,
in the sight of God, of great price”? What can you say, fashionable
Christian mother, when He calls you to give an account of your
stewardship?
LXX.
PROCRASTINATION.
AN inclination to put off till to-morrow that which were more
appropriately done to-day seems quite natural to almost every one,
but it is one of the symptoms of depravity, and the earlier it is
fought and conquered the better. There are some sensible mothers whose
constant endeavor is to prevent this habit from gaining a foothold in
their children’s characters. From earliest childhood they watch and
nip it in the bud. Those who have lived an active life--every moment
claiming its own special work--are the mothers who can best train
their children to understand the full value of the prompt, regular
performance of each duty, however small.
“Come, little one, it is time to get up.” The child is perhaps
disinclined, thinks one more little nap would be comfortable. But it is
time to prepare for breakfast, and what is gained by delay is nothing
but the first lesson in selfish indulgence and procrastination. The
child does not need it. If it went to bed, as it should have done,
when the birds folded their heads under their wings, it requires no
more sleep. A few gentle words or caresses will soon chase all traces
of slumber from those bright eyes, and the little one, merry as the
birds, is soon ready for breakfast.
While children are very young begin this education, and see that it is
distinctly understood that no excuse but illness can avail. They must
be up at a given hour, and by the time they are twelve years old you
will find it difficult to keep your little girls and boys in bed beyond
the regular time. You have thus established a habit of early rising
which will cling to them through life; that is, if their mother gently
and lovingly impressed upon their minds what they would lose by delay
and gain by promptness. But, although a stern and severe compulsion
may secure obedience while under your eye, by that course you make the
act so disagreeable and repulsive, by associating it with your stern
manner, that they are tempted to rush to the other extreme whenever
they can do so with impunity.
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