Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
General
Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
Children naturally love play better than work or study; but it is
better that they early learn that there is something besides play which
even little girls and boys can and must do. They, of course with no
evil intention, will be inclined to stretch the play hour or recess
a little beyond the appointed time. It is the parent’s duty to watch
and guard against this, not on account of the real good which a young
child might accomplish in these few extra moments, but for the sake
of establishing a habit which will be of infinite service for the
child in after years, that the discipline, though for the present not
joyous, may work for its future happiness and usefulness. Therefore,
make the hours for recreation as frequent as seems necessary, only let
it be distinctly understood that when that time expires there must be
no delay, no procrastination. As the child grows older and able to
exercise a little judgment, it will soon become conscious of the loss
incurred by dilatoriness, and the gain secured by a prompt performance
of duty. A judicious mother will soon teach it how to contrast the
two modes of action, and a few unfortunate experiments will fully
corroborate her teachings. The penalty to be paid for leaving any duty
which should be done _now_ until “by and by,” generally follows very
speedily after the omission.
When quite young we were given a piece of work one morning which should
not have occupied an hour’s time. In the afternoon our brothers were to
go to a neighboring town in a sleigh, and we were promised a ride with
them, on condition that this work was finished in season. It was a rich
treat, and we were greatly elated. The work we were set to do was so
easy we made merry over the idea of a failure. But the sun did shine
so brightly, and it was so pleasant to stand at the east windows and
watch the men at the huge wood-pile, sawing and splitting the winter
store of wood; and it was such fun to see the old gander chase our
little roguish brother away from the place where the stately old fellow
kept watch and ward over his mate on her nest, that every few minutes
our sewing was forgotten and we were seated on the old-fashioned
window-sill. A gentle voice often reminded us that we were wasting
time, and must be left behind if that simple seam were not finished in
season.
“O mother! I can finish it just as easy!”
“Yes, dear, if you work steadily, but not if you delay in this manner.”
Dear, patient mother! How much easier for her to have taken our
neglected work and done it herself than to keep such a vigilant watch
over a giddy girl; but for a child’s good a mother bears all things.
Time flew by, unregarded by our idle fingers. Presently a sleigh dashed
up to the door, the bells jingling merrily. It cannot be time! But a
cheery voice rang out, “Come, sister, not a minute to spare,”--and
that little, little bit of work not quite done!
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