Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
We regret, for their own comfort, that our present housekeepers do not
retain their parents’ habits of early rising. But contrast the life
of our parents with the modern life of their descendants. The demands
of society, late hours, too much visiting and company, make laggards
in the morning; and the appetite, injured by untimely eating at these
late hours, is supposed to need coaxing with dainties at breakfast.
The elaborate breakfast requires as much time and labor as belongs
to a dinner; and the dinner, with all the variety that etiquette
claims,--several courses, and a multitude of dishes consequent upon
these courses,--increases the labor immensely; and, unless blessed with
a good corps of servants, requiring little oversight, we can secure
little time for rest, reading, or sewing. Such servants are seldom
granted to mortals in our times. Twenty years ago, one girl, without
any of the modern improvements,--water to be brought from the street
pumps, suds to be taken up and emptied in the gutter,--accomplished
more work, and made the family more comfortable, than three or four
will do now.
We are inclined to believe that the heaviest trials of housekeeping
may be traced, not to the degeneracy of our mothers’ daughters, but to
a marked and most unfortunate change in the character and capacity of
our “help.”(?) This is no freak of the imagination. Some few families
still retain servants that have been with them for years, and such
housekeepers have no sympathy with their less favored sisters; but let
death or marriage remove these comforts, and compel them to seek others
to replace the old and well-tried ones, and they will learn that this
complaint has very substantial foundations.
What remedy may be found it is impossible to say. In part our
housekeepers are to blame. They have such horror of being left without
help, such dread of constant changes, that they live as slaves to the
whims and caprices of an ignorant class of persons, who soon recognize
their fears and dependence, and use this knowledge to extort high wages
for very little service,--compelling then mistresses to pass over their
impudence and arrogance by bold threats of leaving.
This lack of independence, this fear to assert their own authority
and rights, is, we apprehend, in a great measure the cause of the
insubordination and uselessness of the girls of the present time. When
they learn that their services will not be accepted unless faithfully
rendered, we may look for easier and happier times. But how is this to
be accomplished? A few cannot remedy the evil. It can only be effected
by general co-operation. We are not willing to acknowledge that the
housekeepers of the past were any more capable than those of our time;
but we do think that our position, owing to the great annoyance we are
subjected to from the kitchen cabinet, is far more trying than our
mothers’ could have been.
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