I am not surprised at the calumny you met with. Many people stoop
to the baseness of discovering in a person distinguished by eminent
qualities, the weaknesses of humanity, while there is scarcely to be
found an honest heart, who knows how to render a noble and sincere
homage to another's superiority. I acknowledge myself guilty with
respect to you, of a too common instance of injustice, that of
desiring that others would always _conduct themselves_ by our maxims!
I am the more culpable, as I entirely agree with you in thinking that
all our actions should proceed from the fixed principles we have
adopted. I never pay a blind deference to the judgment of any man, or
any body of men whatever. I cannot acquiesce in a decision, however
formidable made by numbers, where my own reason is not satisfied. When
the mind has no _data_, no settled principles to which it may recur
as the rule of action, the agent can feel little or no satisfaction
within himself, and society can have no moral security whatever
against him.
The most permanent, the most pleasing enjoyment the human soul is
capable of entertaining, is that which arises from a consciousness
of having acted up to that standard of rectitude which we conceive
to be the proper measure of our duty: and the best grounds on which
we can expect others to place confidence in us, is the assurance we
give them that we act under the influence of such moral obligations.
This principle has influenced my conduct: and as you say you are
absolutely determined never to live with your husband again; although
my sentiments do not correspond with yours on that head, I will add
nothing further on that subject, but refer you to certain passages
in scripture, which I think on sober reflection must invalidate your
present opinion[25].
The caprice you have often tacitly blamed me for respecting Lord
Darnley, had you known the motives for, you would have approved--I
will now in reward for your candour _to me_ be equally sincere _with
you_--trusting to your honor, that you will not _divulge_ what is it
so material to me to _conceal_.
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