My Opinions and Betsey Bobbet's: Designed as a Beacon Light to Guide Women to Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness, But Which May Be Read by Members of the Sterner Sect, without Injury to Themselves or the BookHolley, Marietta
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My Opinions and Betsey Bobbet's: Designed as a Beacon Light to Guide Women to Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness, But Which May Be Read by Members of the Sterner Sect, without Injury to Themselves or the Book
Holley, Marietta
Feminism -- Fiction; United States -- Social life and customs -- 19th century -- Fiction; Women -- Suffrage -- United States -- Fiction; Women's rights -- Fiction
“Josiah Allen,” says I, “Anybody would think to hear you talk that a
woman couldn’t do but just one of the two things any way--marry or vote,
and had got to take her choice of the two at the pint of the bayonet.
And anybody would think to hear you go on, that if a women could live in
any other way, she wouldn’t be married, and you couldn’t get her to.”
Says I, looking at him shrewdly, “if marryin’ is such a dreadful nice
thing for wimmen I don’t see what you are afraid of. You men act kinder
guilty about it, and I don’t wonder at it, for take a bad husband, and
thier haint no kind of slavery to be compared to wife slavery. It is jest
as natural for a mean, cowardly man to want to abuse and tyranize over
them that they can, them that are dependent on ’em, as for a noble and
generous man to want to protect them that are weak and in their power.
Figurin’ accordin’ to the closest rule of arithmetic, there are at least
one-third mean, dissopated, drunken men in the world, and they most all
have wives, and let them tread on these wives ever so hard, if they
only tread accordin’ to law, she can’t escape. And suppose she tries to
escape, blood-hounds haint half so bitter as public opinion on a women
that parts with her husband, chains and handcuffs haint to be compared
to her pride, and her love for her children, and so she keeps still, and
suffers agony enough to make four first class martyrs. Field slaves
have a few hours for rest at night, and a hope, to kinder boy them up,
of gettin’ a better master. But the wife slave has no hope of a change
of masters, and let him be ever so degraded and brutal is at his mercy
day and night. Men seem to be awful afraid that wimmen won’t be so fierce
for marryin’ anybody, for a home and a support, if they can support
themselves independent, and be jest as respectable in the eyes of the
world. But,” says I,
“In them days when men and wimmen are both independent--free and equal,
they will marry in the only true way--from love and not from necessity.
They will marry because God will join their two hearts and hands so you
can’t get ’em apart no how. But to hear you talk Josiah Allen, anybody
would think that there wouldn’t another woman marry on earth, if they
could get rid of it, and support themselves without it.” And then I
added, fixin’ my keen grey eyes upon his’en. “You act guilty about it
Josiah Allen. But,” says I, “just so long as the sun shines down upon
the earth and the earth answers back to it, blowin’ all out full of
beauty--Jest so long as the moon looks down lovin’ly upon old ocien
makin’ her heart beat the faster, jest so long will the hearts and souls
God made for each other, answer to each other’s call. God’s laws can’t be
repealed, Josiah Allen, they wasn’t made in Washington, D. C.”
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