My Queen: A Weekly Journal for Young Women. Issue 5, October 27, 1900: Marion Marlowe Entrapped; or, The Victim of Professional JealousySheldon, Lurana
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My Queen: A Weekly Journal for Young Women. Issue 5, October 27, 1900: Marion Marlowe Entrapped; or, The Victim of Professional Jealousy
Sheldon, Lurana
Dime novels -- Periodicals; Popular literature -- Periodicals; Young women -- Periodicals
A letter like this is a positive treat! A girl of fifteen who can
reason so wisely will not be apt to make many errors. A great deal
of the misery in the world has been created through thoughtless and
hasty marriages. Women marry men at eighteen whom they despise at
twenty-five, or choose husbands at twenty-five whom they have ceased to
love or respect at thirty. Human nature is ever changeable, and it is
one of the most difficult tasks in the world to discover two intellects
that will be perfect mates for life. One may go ahead or lag behind,
and because of this the result of marriages is uncertain. We would
certainly advise you to wait until you are older. No girl of fifteen
is sufficiently well developed mentally or physically to marry, and,
furthermore, your education cannot be completed at your age.
“I have been married a year, and, oh, how I regret it! Just think,
Miss Shirley, I was an only daughter. I earned ten dollars a week as
cloak model down town, and having no board to pay, could use it all
in pin money. Now ten dollars a week has to do for a whole family,
my husband, myself and a six weeks’ old baby. I would give the world
if I had never been married, and I write this letter as a warning to
others. I do hope you will print it in your correspondence columns.
“Mrs. G.”
We receive so many letters like this one that if we printed them all
we are afraid we should discourage matrimony. You should have “looked
before you leaped,” but that is a thing that young people in love
rarely do. It seems strange that love, or whatever the sentiment is
that draws some young people together, should so blind their eyes to
the future. We are very sorry that you have made such a blunder, but
now that you have done it you should make the best of it. For the sake
of your child you must “put your shoulder to the wheel” and try to
conquer every obstacle that threatens your domestic happiness. Above
all, try not to take too many into your confidence in this wise; people
will only laugh at you for marrying in haste. It is better to hide your
grief and bear the penalty of your own error with silent dignity.
“I have read your Correspondence Department for several weeks with
great interest, and wish to add one more to the list of questions.
What I want to know is this: Is a woman of thirty too old to marry
a man of twenty-one, and what will be the natural outcome of such a
union?
“Gertrude B.”
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