My Two CountriesAstor, Nancy Witcher Langhorne Astor, Viscountess
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My Two Countries
Astor, Nancy Witcher Langhorne Astor, Viscountess
Reconstruction (1914-1939); Women -- Political activity
Can we change it? Are we really different from men? I hope so. If
we were like men, then there would be no use giving us the vote.
It is because we are different that we hope to help, and yet women
are like men in this. They vary! The women who attend prize-fights,
the woman who keeps her husband’s nose to the grindstone because of
her personal demands and vulgar ambition to outshine and out-do her
next-door neighbour, are just as hampering to real civilisation as
the old-fashioned bar-room loafer, and more so. That old-fashioned
bar-room bum was so obviously a warning to all--the ambitious, selfish
wife or daughter is not so obvious; often she’s for a time most
attractive, yet the man whose soul is striving and who finds himself
tied down to one of these women will tell one that their charm soon
turns to dust and ashes. So when I speak of women I only mean real
women, and real women are the women who care for real things. After
all, it’s only people who care about real things that have got us
on as far as we are--not very far I’ll admit--yet we are advancing.
Crass materialism is going. The war of 1914 was just a war of ideals.
Germany said might was right--we are mighty--we must expand--we must
govern the world. The Kaiser with his God’s help led a misguided and
misdirected people up against the Democracies of the World, who,
though they don’t live up to their ideals, have at least got beyond
believing in the Divine Right of Kings. King John of England found
that out in 1214, and the Constitution of America was based on laws
which men fought and died for in England long before they set sail for
other lands. I am told that I have forgotten that Columbus discovered
America. He discovered it, but some have forgotten that he didn’t
settle it. It’s well to remember those first settlers. It’s always well
to remember unselfishness, courage, and determination, and people who
gave up all for a high ideal. Now I don’t come from Puritan stock; we
in Virginia were almost comfortably settled before the Puritan Fathers
set sail--and they meant to land in Virginia! Yet no one can look back
on that gallant band of men and women without admiring and almost
reverencing them. Those are the kind of people who make Civilisation,
people who subordinate the material to the spiritual. They may be rare,
but they are the light which shines in darkness. Throughout history
Materialism has wrecked Civilisation. Now I maintain that women, just
from their very natures, must have more vision than men. Why is it
that you have just had a Mother’s Day, not a Father’s Day? Isn’t it
because of the subtle unnamable something about a mother which men and
women feel? It’s well for a nation to have a Mother’s Day; it’s well
for those who celebrate this day to stop and think what kind of man or
woman their mothers would like them to be. As a mother, I know that
above all things, what we desire for our children is clean-mindedness
and honesty.
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