My Two CountriesAstor, Nancy Witcher Langhorne Astor, Viscountess
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My Two Countries
Astor, Nancy Witcher Langhorne Astor, Viscountess
Reconstruction (1914-1939); Women -- Political activity
I gave them all that I could, and how splendidly they accepted it. I
found out there, during the war, that if you really love people you can
say anything you like to them--if you don’t--you can’t say “Bo” without
somehow hurting them. I wish you Canadians could all have seen that
realest bit of Canada in England--“Cliveden.” We, my husband and I,
only gave some of the buildings and the grounds and a few odd things.
The Canadian Red Cross gave the rest, and I should like to say here
in Ottawa that I saw a great deal of what all countries did for their
soldiers, and no country did more than Canada. No hospitals were better
equipped, no doctors more skilled, no nurses more devoted, and no men
were braver. This may be forgotten in after-war grievances, but it
should never be.
When I speak of what men stood from me, perhaps I had better give you
some idea of what they bore with patience and fortitude. Many times
a month I would give them a temperance lecture. Temperance lectures
were needed--in war as well as peace. I would not begin with: “Thou
shalt not.” I began with a picture of Canada, their mothers, their
sweethearts at home, what they wished and prayed for them. Then I
would paint a picture of what having a “grand time” meant--drink,
women, etc., and then the awful consequences which so often followed
a “grand time“--sometimes prison, sometimes worse than prison, nearly
always misery. They would listen because they knew I cared. I did
care--and I still care. That’s why I am in politics. One boy came up to
me as he was going on leave, after one of my horrible talks, gave me
his money and said: “Here, Mrs. Astor, you’ve just ruined my holiday.”
I might have ruined what he thought would be a good holiday, but I
realised I had done what his mother wanted me to do.
I only did what hundreds of English women did for your sons. I never
like speaking of war without speaking of what the women did. I know
what Canadians who got the chance did--no women ever did better. In
England the whole nation had the chance and the whole nation took it.
No, not the whole nation. Some wrote diaries. The people who wrote
diaries in the War--well, they wrote diaries! Never judge the people of
England by the people who wrote diaries!
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