My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's HistoryStowe, Harriet Beecher
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My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's History
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
American fiction -- 19th century; Courtship -- Fiction; Marriage -- Fiction; Romance fiction
"Mr. Henderson, all this sort of proceeding is thoroughly vexatious and
disagreeable," said Ida; "and all the more so that it tends directly to
injure all women who are trying to be self-supporting and independent.
It destroys that delicacy and refinement of feeling which men, and
American men especially, cherish toward women, and will make the paths
of self-support terribly hard to those who have to tread them. There
really is not the slightest reason why a woman should cease to be a
woman because she chooses to be independent and pursue a self-supporting
career. And claiming a right to dispense with womanly decorums and act
like a man is just as ridiculous as it would be for a man to claim the
right to wear woman's clothes. Even if we supposed that society were so
altered as to give to woman every legal and every social right that man
has; and if all the customs of society should allow her to do the utmost
that she can for herself, in the way of self-support, still, women will
be relatively weaker than men, and there will be the same propriety in
their being treated with consideration and delicacy and gentleness that
there now is. And the assumptions of these hoydens and bullies has a
tendency to destroy that feeling of chivalry and delicacy on the part of
men. It is especially annoying and galling to me, because I do propose
to myself a path different from that in which young women in my position
generally have walked; and such reasoners as Aunt Maria and all the
ladies of her circle will not fail to confound Miss Audacia's
proceedings and opinions, and mine, as all belonging to the same class.
As to the opinions of the paper, it is mainly by the half truths that
are in it that it does mischief. If there were not real evils to be
corrected, and real mistakes in society, this kind of thing would have
no power. As it is, I have no doubt that it will acquire a certain
popularity and do immense mischief. I think the elements of mischief and
confusion in our republic are gathering as fast as they did in France
before the revolution."
"And," said I, "after all, republics are on trial before the world. Our
experiment is not yet two hundred years old, and we have all sorts of
clouds and storms gathering--the labor question, the foreign immigration
question, the woman question, the monopoly and corporation question, all
have grave aspects."
"You see, Mr. Henderson," said Ida, "as to this woman question, the
moderate party to which I belong is just at that disadvantage that
people always are when there is a party on ahead of them who hold some
of their principles and are carrying them to every ridiculous extreme.
They have to uphold a truth that is constantly being brought into
disrepute and made ridiculous by these ultra advocates. For my part, all
I can do is to go quietly on with what I knew was right before. What is
right _is_ right, and remains right no matter how much ultraists may
caricature it."
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