My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's HistoryStowe, Harriet Beecher
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My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's History
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
American fiction -- 19th century; Courtship -- Fiction; Marriage -- Fiction; Romance fiction
"Nay," said I; "if you appeal to nature in this matter of sex, there is
the female element in grand and powerful forms, as well as in gentle and
dependent ones. The she-lion and tiger are more terrible and untamable
than the male. The Greek mythology was a perfect reflection of nature,
and clothed woman with majesty and power as well as with grace; how
splendid those descriptions of Homer are, where Minerva, clad in
celestial armor, leads the forces of the Greeks to battle! What vigor
there is in their impersonation of the Diana; the woman strong in
herself, scorning physical passion, and terrible to approach in the
radiant majesty of her beauty, striking with death the vulgar curiosity
that dared to profane her sanctuary! That was the ideal of a woman,
self-sufficient, victorious, and capable of a grand, free, proud life of
her own, not needing to depend upon man. The Greeks never would have
imagined such goddesses if they had not seen such women, and our modern
civilization is imperfect if it does not provide a place and sphere for
such types of womanhood. It takes all sorts of people to make up a
world, and there ought to be provision, toleration, and free course for
all sorts."
"Well, youngster," said my uncle, "I think you'll write tolerable
leaders for some radical paper, one of these days, but you fellows that
want to get into the chariot of the sun and drive it, had better think a
little before you set the world on fire. As for your Diana, I thank
Heaven she isn't _my_ wife, and I think it would be pretty cold picking
with your Minerva."
"Permit me to say, uncle, that in this 'latter day glory' that is
coming, men have got to learn to judge women by some other standard than
what would make good wives _for them_, and acknowledge sometimes a
femininity existing in and for itself. As there is a possible manhood
complete without woman, so there is a possible womanhood complete
without man."
"That's not the Christian idea," said my uncle.
"Pardon me," I replied, "but I believe it is exactly what St. Paul meant
when he spoke of the state of celibacy, in devotion to the higher
spiritual life, as being a higher state for some men and women than
marriage."
"You are on dangerous ground there," said my uncle, "you will run right
into monastic absurdity."
"High grounds are always dangerous grounds," said I, "full of pitfalls
and precipices, yet the Lord has persisted in making mountains,
precipices, pitfalls, and all, and being made they may as well be
explored, even at the risk of breaking one's neck. We may as well look
every question in the face, and run every inquiry to its ultimate."
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