Narrative of My Captivity Among the Sioux IndiansKelly, Fanny
History
Narrative of My Captivity Among the Sioux Indians
Kelly, Fanny
Dakota Indians -- History; Dakota Indians -- Wars -- 1862-1865; Indian captivities -- West (U.S.); Kelly, Fanny, 1845-1904
The Indian boy receives no name until some distinguishing trait of
character or feat suggests one, and changes it from time to time as
more fitting ones are suggested. Some of their names are very odd, and
some quite vulgar.
The wife is sometimes wooed and won, as if there was something of
sentiment in the Indian character, but oftener purchased without the
wooing. When the desired object is particularly attractive, and of a
good family, the courting and purchasing both may be required. When
a young brave goes courting, he decorates himself out in his best
attire, instinctively divining that appearances weigh much in the eyes
of a forest belle, or dusky maiden, who receives him bashfully, for a
certain kind of modesty is inherent in Indian girls, which is rather
incongruous when considered in connection with their peculiar mode of
life. Discretion and propriety are carefully observed, and the lovers
sit side by side in silence, he occasionally producing presents for
her acceptance. These express a variety of sentiment, and refer to
distinct and separate things; some signifying love; some, strength;
some, bravery; others allude to the life of servitude she is expected
to live if she becomes his wife. If they are accepted graciously, and
the maiden remains seated, it is considered equivalent to an assurance
of love on her part, and is acted upon accordingly. Although no woman’s
life is made less slavish by the marriage connection, and no one is
treated with respect, it is scarcely known in Indian life that a girl
has remained unmarried even to middle age.
When a chief desires to multiply the number of his wives, he often
marries several sisters, if they can be had, not because of any
particular fancy he may have for any but the one who first captivated
him, but because he thinks it more likely to have harmony in the
household when they are all of one family. Not even squaws can live
happily together, when each may have a part interest in the same man
as their husband jointly. Polygamy is inconsistent with the female
character, whether in barbarism or civilization.
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