NetWorld! What People Are Really Doing on the Internet and What It Means to YouRothman, David H.
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NetWorld! What People Are Really Doing on the Internet and What It Means to You
Rothman, David H.
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A seventy-eight-year-old widow in the American South discovered Harmon’s
list. She was the first in her family, after several generations of
mental illness, to seek psychiatric help. People from Singapore have
popped up, too, reporting how they were stigmatized as lazy by people
unable to understand the energy-sapping qualities of the disease.
Walkers tell of spouses complaining about the loss of sex drive from
depression or medications. Simply put, Harmon’s list has not just helped
people cope with a disease, but it has also helped those who can’t
understand it. And as shown by the Singaporean example, geography has
been inconsequential for the most part. “When you’re depressed,” Harmon
says, “it doesn’t matter where you’re from, you’re still depressed.”
What’s more, Walkers can log on as often or seldom as they want.
Frequently the depressed feel all “peopled up,” so they may flee into
their rooms and close the blinds when visitors approach. But with
Walkers messages, all they need do is press the delete key. The Internet
isn’t just a medium of special benefit to the deaf; it’s also one for
the seriously depressed, many of whom, if made Netless, might try to do
without _any_ company offline.
As with thousands of other Net lists, people come and go, some of them
overwhelmed by the sheer volume of messages; Stoll is right to
characterize the Internet as like trying to drink water from a fire
hydrant. But a core of stalwarts remain enthusiastically on Walkers, and
along with Harmon and Goldberg, they’re rather small-townish in
cyberspace in the best of ways. I ask about the East Coast Walker with
suicidal tendencies. Harmon says that by the time the supportive
messages reached the man, the programmer had already called 911 and gone
to the hospital to have his stomach pumped.
But, yes, Harmon says, Walkers has indeed saved lives. “A more usual
situation is that someone is considering suicide and issues an appeal to
Walkers for help. They’ll say something to the effect that ‘It’s not
worth it, and nothing I do ever works, and I’m probably bothering you
with this note.’ People respond to it and sometime call the person by
phone if the number is available.” If the number isn’t, Harmon and other
Netheads will try to use their knowledge of the Internet to track it
down. “We don’t breach privacy unless there really is a suicide threat,
and sometimes people’s accounts may be on services where we can’t find
them. More usually, various people may send their own phone numbers
either privately or to someone or to the list, so that other members can
reach them.
“The Internet,” he cautions, “is _not_ always a fast-rescuer—you may be
lucky to get same-day service. In the programmer’s case his note didn’t
even get _to_ my list for an hour, much less get sent out to all the
members. _I_ found out about his note by getting a midnight phone call!”
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