NetWorld! What People Are Really Doing on the Internet and What It Means to YouRothman, David H.
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NetWorld! What People Are Really Doing on the Internet and What It Means to You
Rothman, David H.
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I hope that the people’s love letters don’t just vanish, because the
output of _some_ Netfolks can be charmingly Victorian in style, feeling,
or sheer volume. “My family took it pretty hard at first and were a bit
skeptical, especially my Mum,” says an Australian college student who
fell in love with an American more than a decade older than she is, ”but
then I gave them some of the early letters to read, a pile of 100, the
only ones I had time to print out, and the next day my mother came up to
me and said, ‘I am very happy for you. I am glad you have Frank.’ I was
waiting for the ‘But,’ but it never came.” A New England woman, who
married a fellow clarinet player she met on the Internet, says he once
showed her a $1,000-plus telephone bill. That’s Love, capital L. Maybe
the nineteenth century is alive in some quarters, whatever the medium,
voice or e-mail.
Below I’ll tell stories of Greg and Sue; a bachelor who was looking for
a woman who wouldn’t treat him like “a peripheral”; and a man who, to
his distress, found himself cuckolded more easily because his wife was
on the Net.
Greg and Sue
Adelaide was where Greg Smith majored in library studies at the
University of South Australia. It was a graceful port and state capital
with a Mediterranean climate, a population of a million, the Torrens
River in the center, and swarms of college students from three schools.
Named for Queen Adelaide, the wife of England’s King William IV, the
city dated back to the 1830s. Kangaroos still hopped around in the
countryside, but Adelaide itself was both urban and urbane. It was full
of churches and bars alike, along with trendy shops in Rundle Mall and
elsewhere. The State Theater put on Shakespearean plays at an
internationally known festival center.
Not surprisingly, Adelaide has been described as the Boston of South
Australia. While some young locals may shrug off the place as too
churchy and sleepy, others might disagree. Adelaide in many ways is a
young person’s town—a good place to meet the opposite sex. Greg Smith,
in fact, did find women in the corporeal world around him, but the
relationships never took root, and in the early 1990s he was still on
the lookout in the bars (“universities are great for this”), the parks,
the buses, the mall—you name it. He had his attractions. Greg, in fact,
was on the handsome side, if you went by the digitized photo and other
information conveyed over the Net. He stood six-foot four, weighed
around 190, kept in shape by walking, and had thick, dark brown hair,
and a winsome smile.
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