A significant fact was the frequently repeated assertion that the
children were whipped because they were too young to understand
anything else. An interesting state of transition was seen in some of
the thirty-three families who had abandoned whipping but had not given
up the idea of absolute obedience. It is evidenced in comments like
the following: "They are not whipped. Father threatens with a strap."
Or, "It [whipping] is not necessary. Father speaks, and children
obey." Some families had relaxed the discipline sufficiently to be
apparent to our investigators, who made such comments as "Children are
making a terrible noise, but nobody seemed to mind."
It has already been said that whatever the reaction, the training of
the children usually takes place without visible disaster to the
family group. This is especially true while the children are young. As
they grow older the dangers that are inherent in such a situation
become more marked. The figures on juvenile delinquency show that an
unduly large proportion of juvenile offenders are children of
foreign-born parents. This subject will be discussed more fully at a
later point in the chapter in connection with the problem of the older
boy and girl. It is important to emphasize here that the foundation
for later trouble is often laid while the children are young, and
hence consideration of the effect of modern ideas on discipline and
training should begin with the very young child.
LEARNING TO PLAY
One of the needs of the growing child that is much emphasized in
modern ideas of child culture is an opportunity for wholesome play.
The foreign-born mother, from a rural district in Europe, where
children were put to work helping the parents as soon as they could be
in any way useful, frequently does not recognize this need, and hence
does not even do those things within her power to secure it. From some
opportunities which she and the children might enjoy together, she is
cut off by lack of knowledge of English. A Bohemian woman, for
example, said that she did not go with her husband and the children to
the moving pictures, as she could not read the English explanations
and often did not understand the pictures.
Even when the need is recognized it is still a very difficult problem.
In the old country, when the child was too little to work, he could
play in the fields quite safe, in sight of his mother at her work. In
the city, however, especially in the congested districts, which are
the only ones known to immigrants when they first come, the child
cannot play in his own yard, for there is nothing that can be called
a yard. The alternatives are the city streets with their manifold
dangers, or the public playground. From the point of view of physical
safety as well as in giving a place for more wholesome play, the
public playground is obviously the more desirable.
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