An attempt of a different order has been made to reach the Bohemian
farmers in Nebraska. A professor in the state university has for a
number of years gone out to these farming communities, urging in
public speeches given in Bohemian the necessity of higher education
for the children, and especially for the girls.
THE REVOLT OF OLDER CHILDREN
The problem of the older boy and girl is by far the most difficult of
the parents' problems. Reference has already been made to the fact
that it is as the child grows older that the difficulties of
maintaining the old system of parental authority become more apparent.
It is at this time that the child sees that system is out of date, and
then, if ever, he rebels against it. There is considerable evidence
that the parents, on the other hand, feel the importance of
maintaining their authority at that period of the child's life more
than at any other. There are several reasons for this, among the more
important being the fact that the child has reached an age when he can
be economically helpful to the family group, and that the parents see
dangers in his path. In other words, the maintenance of parental
authority seems to be tied up with the control of the child's earnings
and the maintenance of certain conventions regarding the association
between young people of different sexes.[47]
The immigrant parent very generally asserts his legal right to the
entire earnings of his minor child. In fact, the child often continues
the practice of giving up his wages until his marriage. Out of
forty-three families studied, in which there were children of working
age, thirty-five parents took the entire earnings of the children. The
amount that the parent should give back to the child is not fixed by
law or by custom, and it is at this point that conflict between the
child and the parents is likely to arise.
The parents frequently expect to continue to provide for the boy and
the girl of working age as they did when they were younger, and to
recognize their maturity only by giving them small sums weekly for
spending money. In the case of girls even this slight concession is
not made, and the girl has to ask her mother for everything she wants.
In only four of the thirty-five families in which the children turned
in all their earnings was an allowance of as much as $3 a week given.
In the others the working child was given 25 cents, 50 cents, or 75
cents a week, usually on Sunday, or was given no fixed sum but "what
he needs." In a Slovak family a girl of sixteen earning $13 a week,
and one of fourteen earning $9 a week, were each given 50 cents each
pay day; a boy of fifteen in a Slovenian family, earning $15 a week,
received 50 cents on Sunday; two Slovak girls of eighteen and sixteen
years, earning $45 and $80 a month, turned in all their earnings and
got back "what they asked for."
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