Notable Women of Modern ChinaBurton, Margaret E. (Margaret Ernestine)
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Notable Women of Modern China
Burton, Margaret E. (Margaret Ernestine)
China -- Biography; Women -- Biography
"Mrs. Ahok then asked a blessing and we began. The principal dish
is placed in the centre of the table and the hostess with her own
chopsticks helps the guests, all the time urging them to eat, and
apologizing for the food, saying she is sorry she has nothing fit
for them to eat. Mrs. Ahok did the chief part of these duties for
us, and we tried to watch her and do as she did. About two hours we
sat at the table, and at last, when we were nearly exhausted,
bowls of hot water were brought in, and a cloth wrung out was
handed to each person to wash her mouth and hands. The effect on
these powdered and painted faces was very funny, but Mrs. Ahok had
prepared us for this emergency also, and had sent over her own
dressing box--such a beautiful large one--fitted up with everything
they could need, powders, paints, and all complete. The ladies were
quite charmed and delighted to find such a thing in a foreign
house, and adjourned upstairs with great delight to beautify
themselves. We heard them telling each other that it was just as
if they had been at home...."
"At length they said they must go, and we had great leave-taking,
bowing and scraping, and thanks, and apologies for having troubled
us so much, and assurances on our part that it was all pleasure;
and finally off they went, and we sat down to cool ourselves, and
drink tea, and chat with Mrs. Ahok. She was very glad and thankful
that all went off so well, but quite tired after her exertions, and
sat holding her poor little bound feet in her hands, saying they
did ache so."
III
A JOURNEY TO ENGLAND
One day when Mrs. Ahok went to call on one of her English friends, Miss
Bradshaw, she was startled to find that the physician had ordered her to
leave for England on the next steamer, sailing three days later. "I wish
you could go with me, Mrs. Ahok," Miss Bradshaw said, when she had told her
of the physician's decision. This was a very remarkable suggestion to make
to this little Chinese woman, whose life had been such a secluded one that
a few years before she would not even accept an invitation to dinner with
the Baldwins, since there were to be foreign gentlemen present. Only a
short time before, when the Baldwins were returning to America and Mrs.
Ahok had gone with them, on her husband's launch, to the steamer anchorage,
twelve miles away, they had considered it a great honour, since this
Chinese friend had never been so far from home before. But Mrs. Ahok's
response was even more remarkable than Miss Bradshaw's proposition; for in
three days her little Chinese trunks packed and ticketed, "Dublin,
Ireland." Mr. Ahok had heartily consented to his wife's going; and she,
unwilling to have her sick friend take the long journey alone, and mindful
of the service she might perform for her people in England, by telling of
their need and pleading for workers, quickly decided to go.
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