Notes and Queries, Vol. IV, Number 104, October 25, 1851: A Medium of Inter-communication for Literary Men, Artists, Antiquaries, Genealogists, etc.Various
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Notes and Queries, Vol. IV, Number 104, October 25, 1851: A Medium of Inter-communication for Literary Men, Artists, Antiquaries, Genealogists, etc.
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should reduce themselves, by this susceptibility of offence at (in most
cases imaginary) neglect, to a level with the weakness and folly of
human creatures,--I say human creatures; for in the country I have known
feuds caused by omitting to bid to the funeral of a deceased neighbour,
or to send black gloves. It was to be hoped that these "offensiones
muliebres" (we may add "viriles" also) were peculiar to the human race;
but that, it is apparent, is not so. The custom of giving a piece of the
funeral cake is new to me; though it looks like want of feeling to be
greedy of cake in the hour of affliction, yet there is a sort of
retributive fitness in presenting to these busy people
"_Melle_ soporatam et medicatis frugibus offam."
It is a grateful acknowledgment of past favours conferred upon the
deceased head of the family, and a retainer for future services to the
survivors.
With regard to the custom of informing the bees of a death in the
family, and the penalty of omitting to do so, I can add to the proof of
it. I find among some memoranda I made more than five-and-twenty years
ago, the following note:
"In Buckinghamshire it is common, on the death of any one of the
family, for the nurse to go to all the bee-hives in the garden,
and tap gently three times, each time repeating three times these
words, 'Little brownie, little brownie, your master's dead;' when
the bees, beginning to _hum_, show their consent to remain. The
omission of this ceremony, it is believed, would occasion the loss
of the bees by flight, or otherwise."
To show that a similar custom and belief, though varying in some
particulars, are found upon the continent of Europe, I give the
following extract:
"In Lithuania, when the master or mistress of the house dies, it
is considered necessary to give notice of the fact to the bees,
horses, and cows, by rattling a bunch of keys; and it is believed,
that if this were omitted the bees and cattle would die."--See the
_Journal of Agriculture. Highland and Agricultural Society of
Scotland_, Oct. 1848, p. 538.
One word more of bees: "His head is full of bees" is a Scotch proverb,
said of a drunkard. (Ray's _Proverbs_, p. 198.) "He has a bee in his
head" is an English proverb. So, "He has a bee in his bonnet." What is
the meaning? As I was writing the last lines I said to a friend who was
lounging in his arm-chair by our fireside, "Why is a drunkard's head
said to be full of bees?" "I don't know," he answered, "unless it is on
account of their _humming_. You remember," he added,
"With a pudding on Sundays, with stout _humming_ liquor,
And remnants of Latin to welcome the vicar."
The half-hour bell rang before we had done talking of and repeating
parts of V. Bourne's "The Wish." Many a time has "NOTES AND QUERIES"
given subjects for talk in our family before and after dinner.
F. W. T.
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