The Cogitative Nose does not so frequently appear among women as among
men. Women rather _feel_ than think. Their perceptions are instinctive,
intuitive; men’s cogitative. They are shrewder and more instantaneous in
estimating character, or in deciding an action, than men. Men must
think, and fume, and fret, before they can decide; must, in common
parlance, set the head (reason) against the heart (instinct); while
women rely more on the latter, and are consequently, in judging of
character, or in deciding on a course of moral conduct, more frequently
right than men.
Our advice to a man would be this: if you are at a loss, after long
cogitation—as ten to one you will be—to know whether an intended act is
morally right, ask a sensible woman, and she will guide you with perfect
wisdom in a minute. So, again, if you would know any one’s moral
character, let a sensible woman converse with him for five minutes, and
she will tell you without fail whether he may be trusted. Only be
careful to accept her first dictum; don’t argue the point with her, nor
give her time to _think_; have her instinctive decision. If she thinks,
she will be ten times more at fault than a man; and, if you argue the
matter with her, she will lead you a dance through as fine a quagmire of
absurdities as can be conceived, and there leave you, up to your neck in
the slough, without the power—if not without the will—to help you out.
And this needfully so. Instinct must ever be a better guide than Reason;
for
“In this (Instinct) ’tis GOD that acts, in that (Reason) ’tis man.”
“The perception of a woman,” says Sherlock, “is as quick as lightning.
Her penetration is intuition, almost instinct. By a glance she will draw
a quick and just conclusion. Ask her how she formed it, and she cannot
answer the question. While she trusts her instinct she is scarcely ever
deceived, but she is generally lost when she begins to reason.” A more
accurate picture of the female mind was never drawn; yet some modern
writers have fiercely controverted it. Under a mistaken notion of
equalizing women with men, they seek to destroy the individualism of
their character. One witty popular writer has even ventured to assert,
that if half-a-dozen boys were brought up as girls, and half-a-dozen
girls as boys, the latter would be to all intents psychologically men,
and the former psychologically women. Surely a more preposterous
absurdity never won the assent of the unthinking part of the community;
nevertheless, it has been warmly applauded and often repeated, as if it
were an ascertained fact instead of a ridiculous fancy.
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