The following story of a nursing situation demonstrates the freedom and creativity that is possible when the nurse takes a focused, unfolding view of the lived world of nursing. What occasioned this nursing relationship was conceptualized in the larger system as providing care for the caregiver, providing support in a family context. Here, home nursing is seen as once again on the ascendancy as nurses discover what is increasingly missing in institutional bureaucratic settings--the opportunity to nurse. CONNECTEDNESS I was with J. tonight, and for the first time I enjoyed "authentic presence" with her. I am not so sure it was because I was less fatigued and more receptive to "what is" in her home, but because J. was clearly "different" tonight. She greeted me with her usual rush of activity and then startled me by asking me to "be with me, please," when she gave her son an injection and changed the injection site on his central venous catheter line. I had met her son before, but had never been invited to his room or the upstairs quarters. We spent a long time in A's room with J. and A. talking, sharing thoughts and feelings about (sister) K., frustrations of J. trying to do it all and still find a little peaceful time for herself, angry outbursts and feelings of shame and sadness, and J's desire to go to Mass on Sunday without feelings of extreme anger and despair because K. cries when J. leaves the house, and ending with J's stated determination to do the impossible task of being all things to all people at all times. The dialogue was really between mother and son, with questions directed toward me but immediately answered by J. and A. The conversation was sparkling with humor and piercing with honesty, and created in mind's eye a rich, colorful mosaic of years of love, beauty, and truth. Tonight I wish I were an artist so I could capture this vision on canvas.