In order to give the best and most helpful service the nurse must try from the very beginning to understand her patient as an individual and adapt herself to the patient’s temperament. Some women are rested and soothed by being talked with, read to, diverted and amused in one way or another, during most of the time, and will grow nervous and depressed if left to their own devices. Others, who have greater resources within themselves are happier and better off when left to themselves a good deal, and given an opportunity to think things over. Some women are much subdued as the consciousness of their motherhood grows upon them, and they feel a kind of awe and wonder about this baby that they begin to realize is their own. It is a big experience, this one of motherhood, full of promise and responsibilities, and the young mother herself very often wants to think it out. She will enjoy talking when she wants to talk, but may be irritated and exhausted by a nurse who tries to entertain her all of the time. For this reason, the most conscientious and painstaking nurse imaginable may destroy her usefulness, by adopting the wrong attitude toward her patient during this period of enforced intimacy. Some women want, and even need to be indulged and petted; but, on the other hand, a certain type of reserved and dignified woman is affronted by such attention or by the easy air of familiarity that another courts; one patient is exhausted by the unvarying punctuality and precision of a conscientious, but unadaptable nurse, while that very punctuality and precision is satisfying and restful to another. It is not a simple matter to sound the depths of a patient’s personality, for they are all complex and each one is peculiar to herself. That fact must not be overlooked for each patient is an entirely new and different problem and not like any other that the nurse has had before. But the nurse who is sincere and sympathetic and who earnestly tries to put herself in her patient’s place and see things from her standpoint, will, by virtue of that very attitude, accomplish much toward sensing the patient’s temperament and establishing harmonious relations. Moreover, the patient, herself, will all unconsciously make something of an adjustment to the nurse when she feels the nurse’s sincerity and her eagerness to be of service. One factor in shaping the young mother’s state of mind, which the nurse must take into account is that the entire scheme and purpose of her patient’s life have been changed. She has been plunged very suddenly into a wholly new condition and her reaction to this change will depend upon her temperament, disposition and habits of adjustment.