Obstetrical Nursing: A Text-Book on the Nursing Care of the Expectant Mother, the Woman in Labor, the Young Mother and Her BabyVan Blarcom, Carolyn Conant
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Obstetrical Nursing: A Text-Book on the Nursing Care of the Expectant Mother, the Woman in Labor, the Young Mother and Her Baby
Van Blarcom, Carolyn Conant
Infants -- Care; Maternity nursing; Pregnancy
She has spent nine months looking forward to an event that has been
consummated; she has spent nine months in a state of more or less
apprehension and suspense that have been abruptly ended, and we know
that it is quite natural for any one to experience a letting down, or
something akin to collapse, when long-continued uncertainty is ended,
even though it ends happily.
And as recovery progresses the patient becomes aware, perhaps only
vaguely, of another change which is not always a welcome one. For nine
months she has been the centre of interest in her immediate circle; she
has been the object of unremitting concern and solicitude, and much as
she and her family may have tried to keep her life normal, she and her
needs have constantly been given the first consideration. The very
mystery of the child developing within her has created an attitude of
respect, almost of reverence, which was never her portion before. In
every way she has been shielded, protected and cared for, and all eyes,
including her own, have steadily looked forward to the event for which
this care has been preparing her—her ordeal of childbirth and the coming
of her baby.
And now her ordeal is over. Her baby is here. Every one may be said to
be breathing easily at last and they are no longer apprehensive and
absorbingly interested in her. As a result the young mother will soon
become simply one of the family and the community, and will cease to be
the centre of reverential interest and solicitude.
It is scarcely human to welcome such a change in one’s state, and though
in all probability very few mothers are conscious of resenting it, very
many actually do. And for this reason very many unwittingly cling to a
rôle of semi-invalidism. It is entirely unconscious on their part and it
is also very human and natural.
To aid in the process of bracing up such a young woman to resume her
former life and to meet the demands which it imposes; or to protect
another patient of the eager, buoyant type from exposing herself too
early to the onslaughts made by everyday life, is far from being a
simple task, and to meet it no one rule can be laid down. There are all
of the variations and degrees between the timid or self-indulgent woman,
who must be encouraged and spurred on, and the too active, ambitious
patient, who must be steadied and held back for a time.
But here, again, this is simply a part of the nurse’s duty; one aspect
which makes nursing the gratifying service that it is.
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