imitation; showing that individualization without extravagance which is
genuineness.
But how? By what means is this self-liberation to be effected—this
emancipation from affectation and the bondage of being like other
people? Is it open to us to choose to be genuine? I see nothing
insuperable in the way, except for those who are hopelessly lacking in
a sense of humor. It depends upon the range and scale of your
observation whether you can strike the balance of genuineness or not.
If you live in a small and petty world, you will be subject to its
standards; but if you live in a large world, you will see that
standards are innumerable—some old, some new, some made by the
noble-minded and made to last, some made by the weak-minded and
destined to perish, some lasting from age to age, some only from day to
day—and that a choice must be made among them. It is then that your
sense of humor will assist you. You are, you will perceive, upon a long
journey, and it will seem to you ridiculous to change your life and
discipline your instincts to conform with the usages of a single inn by
the way. You will distinguish the essentials from the accidents, and
deem the accidents something meant for your amusement. The strongest
natures do not need to wait for these slow lessons of observation, to
be got by conning life: their sheer vigor makes it impossible for them
to conform to fashion or care for times and seasons. But the rest of us
must cultivate knowledge of the world in the large, get our offing,
reaching a comparative point of view, before we can become with steady
confidence our own masters and pilots. The art of being human begins
with the practice of being genuine, and following standards of conduct
which the world has tested. If your life is not various and you cannot
know the best people, who set the standards of sincerity, your reading
at least can be various, and you may look at your little circle through
the best books, under the guidance of writers who have known life and
loved the truth.
IV
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