On Horseback Through Asia Minor, Volume 1 (of 2)Burnaby, Fred
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On Horseback Through Asia Minor, Volume 1 (of 2)
Burnaby, Fred
Turkey -- Description and travel
My host now returned, and informed me that M. Perrot, a French author
who wrote a book about Asia Minor, had resided beneath this roof. On
turning over the leaves of the work, which had found its way to Yuzgat,
I came to a page in which M. Perrot observes that "one day I inquired
of my host why he did not introduce me to the lady of the house?"
"It is our custom," was the reply. "And I find it a wise one. What good
does it do me if other men see my wife? I took her for myself; she is
my property. I have heard that you Europeans spoil your wives; mine is
educated properly. When I enter my harem, she comes to kiss my hand,
then she stands upright before me in a respectful attitude, and she
only opens her mouth when I address her."
On showing my host the paragraph, he observed, "When M. Perrot was
here, my father owned this house. I remember the circumstance well. I
was in the room when M. Perrot asked my father to introduce him to my
mother. I suppose my parent was under the impression that in Europe
you keep your wives for your guests; but anyhow we keep our wives for
ourselves."
"What!" I inquired, "would you not introduce me to your sisters or
mother?"
"No, certainly not."
Mr. Vankovitch here interposed with the remark that on the following
day my host's niece was to be affianced to her future husband; that the
bridegroom had not set eyes upon the face of his intended, and no one
in Yuzgat, save her own immediate relatives, had ever seen the young
lady.
"Well," I inquired, "and if the wife of an Armenian is unfaithful to
him, can he obtain a divorce?"
"No," replied my host; "our religion does not allow of such a step; he
does not even see his wife's face before marriage."
"Then he has no opportunity of studying her character, and she has no
opportunity of studying his."
"No."
"They are a set of fools," said Vankovitch to me in Russian, this
language not being understood by the proprietor. "They think that by
shutting up their wives, they can keep them out of mischief, but the
husbands are very much mistaken."
"We need not be surprised at it," he continued; "an Armenian lady is
in no way educated. She is confined in a harem. She is the slave of her
husband, and has to do all sorts of menial work for him—wash his feet,
rub them dry, and wait at table. From her earliest childhood a girl
is brought up to consider herself as a slave in her father's house;
until the Armenians abandon these barbarous customs, their so-called
Christianity will not do them much good. A Turkish husband has no
difficulty in obtaining a divorce—in fact he is not even put to the
expense of going to a court of law. All he has to do is to say, in the
presence of a witness, 'I renounce you,' and he is at once freed from
his wife, who is at liberty to go where she likes, and marry whomsoever
she pleases."
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